For some days I have been wondering to find out whether I have changed a bit than before! I guessed it as now I like to talk and along with it feel comfortable to communicate (actually I communicate by writing) with my net based friends than some of my surrounding people. How about you? No, I still like to talk, spend time with my family and who I really care and like, i,e, with my good relatives, friends ( though they are only two and live in abroad!)neighbors, my house staff.
I think, there are some reasons behind it, let's see.
1. Mostly net friends are caring and do not like to tease or say negative things. Honestly speaking, I have found them very positive to many things.
2. Some known people, including friends (class friends), relatives... tend to say or show negative approaches on various matters. Some of them like to make me down unnecessarily. Though, they may have some specific own reasons!
3. As I can not see ( in general) net friends so there is no so called competition in terms of beauty, wealth, job, life partners, bla bla bla, you know how many they are!
4. Literally, I talk with them in my favorable time, I mean when I want to communicate, so they do not waste my time on the contrary of real people.
5. I can not see how do they react, in reality, to my words/sayings/letters. If they frown, I can not see, if they spite/ want to slap, I never know. ..Lol
6. Honestly, I do not need to do any extra works for them, i,e, making tea/coffee or any other food, I do not need to open the door to let them in specially when I feel tired and sleepy or wanted to watch my favorite TV shows or helping my kids in their study.
7. They will never say, by their gesture, what a bad food you have made today/how lazy you are/why you are so timid/ oh you are badly dressed today...and many more!
So, What is your opinion, dear net friends! And, what type of friends do you like now a days?
Comments
Good morning, dear net friends....your comments always make me happy and confident to move forward and to rule in my own regime!
Hi Bet, I like the reasons you wrote above. :D
However, it's hard to answer what kind of friends I like. I accept any friend as long as they can be, they are willing to be, a friend to me. All the less and plus they have must be had by me, too. In short, I'm not choosy for having a friend.
I'm interested to comment about your reasons. ^^
1. Bet, some people here can tease, too. :D
2. It's a real life. Otherwise, I'll be encouraged by words which make me down.
3. You are right, indeed! I'm glad to meet smart people here. Smart people doesn't need such a competition, I think.
4. :D Sometimes, I need to meet friends, too. ^^
5. OMG, you imagine this. :D Sometimes, I really laugh after log in EC. Then, I tell to a friend in real life that EC is interesting place. LOL
6. LOL...Bet, this shows our laziness. :D
7. Bet, you're so great, today. Thanks for trusting online friend, like me. :)
Here is drizzling recently. Though this is day off, I need some more rest today.
Happy weekend! ^^
I agree with Mishaikh’s comment, be yourself, be nice and kind and respectful and be your own friend. It is a nice and calming feeling.
Wow! Hi Bet! I like when the friends like to tease! And if they have a good sense of humor! If we can have a good time! Sometimes it is laughing and sometimes it is sadness because of some problems or issues.
But I have the questions: 1) How can they say that your food is bad today, if they only can see it's appearance or shape?:)
2) What does it mean "i,e,"?
3 I think there in the third paragraph "so called" must be in brackets (so called).
Thank you Bet for sharing!
As for those, bet, who show negative attitude in virtual and/or real world, DO NOT CARE THEM MUCH. Howler do how, but the caravans get moving on. Be happy in YOURSELF, be your OWN FRIEND, this is the best thing. As I do for myself. I never had/have closed friend, neither now nor in the past. I prefered passing time alone. Thanks for the intimating blog.