Hello all of my friends ..yesterday I was talking with one my friend about Islam. And what if his wife leave Islam and change his religion or to be a secular ..
so some of us are Muslim and love our religion ..some Hindu and some Christian and some zartushet….
I was Curious about this,that if a wife in the Islamic family leave the religion what will be the reaction of her husband ……
So I started with this question and ask him ….
Look friend just imagine ! if you would marry and love your wife as much as you couldn’t imagine living with out her .she loves you incredible ..and care about you a lot ..you have a life with love and understand as much as enough for Common Life .one life that all man and woman are jealous of it ..and you are proud of it .suddenly your wife starts to reading book ..she is human and has her mind and after moment she came to conclusion that wanna change her religion …but she still love you maybe more and more ..what will be your reaction with this Changes ????????????
I know that it may effect on your life but religion sometimes is a personal matter and with these all that I told you what will be your reaction ?
He asked me ,you mean if I speak with her she will not back to Islam ???????
I answer imagine that she is Faithful to her principles and she think that these all are personal matter and she research a lot and this is what that she think and never do not wanna change it.
He suddenly answer I will divorce her ,undoubtedly
I asked him if you love her and have a kids and ,
He answer again :I swear by God that I will leave her!
And ask me and you ? just imagine all that you told me
I answer that with all that told you imagine ….hmmmm I am a little different of you
He said how come?
I answer with all that I told you I swear by God that I will never ever leave him …
This is not important what he answer after that but there is a rules in Islam that if your husband leave the religion..the marriage between you and your wife will be finished and you will not have any relation ship in these case in the aspect of Islam and religion ..
So I know that but I wanna just tell me what will be the reaction of you in the same situation..this is not important if you are muslim or not I am not speaking about just muslim people if you are a Hindu or Christian and you husband or wife leave it ,what will be your reaction in the same situation ????????
And some more important thing ,,this is just about you and ( her – him ) and it is not supposed to any one know anything about it ………
Comments
Good Question... And i like to read others view on it.... According to me, I ll never bother about Religion...It is Man made... God is One...He is seen in different forms, thats it.. I love Islam, I love Hinduism, I love Christianity and I want to be in part of everything....And as you all know, Every Religion preaches the same LOVE LOVE & LOVE....
In such a case, I will never say to my spouse that I want to change my Religion... Shifting to the other one means i am not accepting the present one, which i can never do.... If I want to change my Religion, it means I am not matured and i am half boiled, when i am not aware of the one in which i am standing, what i am going to do with the other one.... Hope u got my point...
Spiderrrrrrrrrrrrrrr Thanks for your great comment ......
Great one yes this is all about your sight to life and and what you think this is always what i say about to be human ...we do not have to destroyed the power of thinking ...we do not have to give up all against our religion besides to be historical reason for refusing all details about religion ..
Thanks for the valuable comment :)"
OH Thanks ferhat :)" maybe who know that who will go to heaven ,,,,,God only know that ..
Good husband is very sad cuz of his wife :)))...thanks for your nice comment ...
Dear lamlom brother ,first of all Thanks for explaining the word and Thanks for your comment i am so happy to have your idea cuz you are not muslim and i wanted to hear another's people idea from another religion and another area about it ...
so i have to tell you yes as i mentioned in the secular country and at least in the family accept that religion is personal matter ..and yes unfortunately this is way of all religion just wanna keep it ...
Thanks for your comment brother :)"
hi dear Sima...
I think only her and I am very sadd because of her and I prayer for her.
I am sorry on his behalf..because ı belave that she never gon to heaven ( im my belief)
I I would never want this to happen because according to my belief she is'n be hapy afterlife so if I love so much .my only duty she hapyy prezent and the other life
Hi Faraz great i didnot know exactly the word of Apostasy ...great yes i am writing this from Iran but i have spoke with one of my friend in English club that he is sonni and he told me the same thing and i surprised .. you know in Iran people and family do not have any problem with changing the religion and all force is from our government cuz we have Islamic government ...great and nice advice ,,between them not have to be any thing hide and another thing i am completely agree with you that religion is a personal matter ,,,i hope Allah help all muslim to can accept other's people opinion..Thanks again ...
lol and after that thanks for mention me about the sentences ..and i have to tell you that just you made my mood :(...
but still hahhaha ..this is your choice and of course this is great if you think so ...
i hope never happen for you just ask you to imagine :)
Dear Vanessa ,I know about the situation and what you think about family and belief of people thanks a lot for your comment..and i am really jealous of you ..and completely agree with you ,this is very good that people are free for having the The earliest and most important things in his life ...without any blaming :)"and i wanna tell you soemthing in Iran just our government accept the same thing ..i know lots of people who change their religion without any blame from their family ....thanks again :)"
ha ha ha ..yes pishy i really know ..maybe for me this is not all about love ,,this is about to be free in their relief if i have selected just that part about love ,to make him a little sensitive maybe i cant change his idea about every one have his belief ..i didnot mean exactly about love ...thanks for your comment :)"
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