War of the genders

People like comparing the genders, it is very debatable topic. For instance - whose life is worse, if men are so busy at work, all the time tired or if women are stuck in the kitchen, must do only their duties and take care of the kids. I was thinking about it and would like to show you in this blog describtion of one day with the views, which crossed my freaky mind. Just one thing - remember I am from Europe because in my opinion such issue might differ throughout the cultures we live in.

Let´s wake up, guys!!! New day is here!!!

Man just takes shower – actually if he feels like doing it, brushes teeth, does something within few minutes with his hair, gets dressed and? He is ready to leave for work.

What about woman? Men like to complain: "Ohhhhhhh my wife has again occupied the bathroom for one hour!" But why? There is very simply answer - women do care about their look plus honestly  they have more work to do with their bodies :-D Does man need to shave his legs? As if women loved doing it but it is of course something impossible to tolerate so almost all women must follow the trendy style and make themselves busy with such things. Does man need to wear make up? Apart from Konchita, noooo. To put make up, to blow dry hair so that hairstyle would look good - it all takes time, dear men. So I think that it is obvious now why women spend more time in the bathroom.

Let´s take breakfast. Man can eat whatever he wants to. Fried eggs with ham, hamburgers, donuts etc. Actually if he becomes fatter, friends will even praise him for looking more masculinely with bigger belly. In short fat man is tolerated by society without any problems.

Woman? Ohhhhh, if woman is fat, did you notice that people around start gossiping her? She is in the center of the attention. Anyway, almost all women must control themselves what they eat if they want to look good. Of course not at the age of 20 but later when metabolism gets slower, one feels like gaining even from breathing the air! Soooo unfair!!

High time to start working. Actually, if woman isn´t jobless. In my opinion to find a job for  man is easier than for woman. Firstly she is without any experience, then when she has the kids, employer is afraid of the fact that she would be at home still with them when they are sick and in the end when woman is finally older without almost any commitments, they are able to say: "Sorry, madam, you are too old. We need younger people." That´s someting common here in my country plus another interesting thing is that women who work at the same position as men, do the same work – they don´t get the same salary!!!  Men´s sallary is of course higher. Another proof how fair life can be. When both are done at work, usually woman goes to the supermarket to buy something for dinner and finally she is able to go back home.

We are back from work and if we have the kids, we must take care of them, do the homeworks with them etc. Luckily there are men who are able to do this but not all show the interest because they aren´t patient enough which might be one of their excuses. As if woman was the only one parent, plus I don´t count time when she was pregnant, felt sick, gained, had other problems and then gave a birth, that I would say is the most painful experience ever. Do men need to go through something like this?

Anyway, woman should move to the kitchen!! Family is hungry! Man just rests on the sofa because his day was soooooo exhausting and waits for dinner. As if day of woman was just full of fun and entertainment and she didn´t want at least to sit down and stare at nowhere :-D

When the family is done with dinner, kids go to bed, parents can start arguing about what channel they will watch  :-D Or man goes to the pub to have fun with his friends and desperate woman turns on tv and better wathes some romantic series to dream of better life :-D

So whose life isn´t easy at all? Will be glad to read all your comments ;-)

 

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  • I MBBS student in china and every Friday and Saturday we go for rolling skating.one day i was practicing, a boy and girl collide and spilled each other on ground.... everyone rushed and surround her ,asking " are you all right, are you hurt, what happened etc" whereas the boy was alone on ground a meter far, he get up by him self and came to me. he said " it's not fair " :)

  • you are completely right .It really happens even in my country(Egypt).Men usually save no effort to blame the women.
  • The husband was bored at home....

    Wife said, lets play a game "Hide & See"

    Wife said, if you will find me then we'll go to shopping.

    Husband said, If i couldn't find you then?

    Wife said, please don't say like that I'll hide behind the door

    Husband shocked wife rocks :D

  • Give and take make the relationship easy.  There should not be EGO between the couple.

  • Chak, thanx.. btw since some ppl start to compete it is in my opinion waste of time.. I even know couples who want to look superior 24/7 :D agree that we are influenced by friends, colleagues etc. sometimes in a bad way but in the end we are these who have some principles, morals and by following them we live the life we consider the best, no matter if it is woman or man..

    Ali, hahahaaaaa :D
  • Blog of the month:d
  • nice blog Luzzi!..When living in society its obvious that all gender behave prudent and same time not being iconoclastic. why talking about your surroundings!? yes,men and women lifestyle changes with their pals. I think war of gender begins when men or women compare with their friends lifestyle and wants to keep on track with them. In this race to self groom and try to being superior in group keeps them busy. all gender are having their own field of concerns which makes war draw! 

  • Dee, thanx for comment and yes if both could compromise life wouldnt be hell but paradise :D

    Mr. Bob, agree ... stereotype is killer of many relationships. If couple can compromise, if they can help each other and man appreciates woman the same way as she does, then I think they can survive everything..
  • There are differences between all individuals, men or women. Communication is the key to this but it takes honest listening from both sides. Stereotypes make it difficult to change things and as you said Luzzi, cultures have different expectations too. Gender roles are slowly changing and women are slowly getting some equality with men.

    I think people naturally think they have things worse than the other and both sides don't communicate as well as they should. Humans are so complicated.
  • Ohnie, thank you  for your comment. Of course I knew not all will agree with me. My point wasn´t to show how we - women suffer and i know that as for psychology -  both genders think in totally different way. Anyway, it wasn´t about the way we think but what we go through in our life. I can´t say all men are the same but I cant agree that their life is so damn hard since usually they "just" work. We - women work too here and if i count house works cooking kids etc. In short I am just allergic to men who say - you have no idea how tough my life is, i work, you should be thankful to me blablabla..

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