Trust, faith, believe, these are just simple words but those words are very affected in one’s life. Sometimes their effects are very dangerous in our life. If someone has blindly trust on a person and suddenly he/she break the trust of that person, what would be the feeling of that person.Can I explain a broken heart in words? Can I explain that pain in words? I think no one can explain.Few days ago I met my friend. I felt that she was upset and wanted to share something, so I asked her about it. First she refused that she was upset but after that she said, I am confuse to take a decision. I asked her to share whatever is running in her mindShe started to share her confusion. She saidI have a very close friend. I blindly trust her. I never think that she will lie or hide anything to me. I felt that she's my shadow, my soul mate and my only and only one friend with whom I can open my heart but I was wrong. I'm not that much intelligent to judge a person.I listened her very carefully and tried to get that point which made her that sad. She continued, few days ago my that friend sent me a paragraph and said, I dedicate this to you. I was really happy to see this as that was really superb and I can use this for my work so I asked her, Is it your writing? Have you written this or you got it from another side? She replied very confidently, no dear it's mine I wrote this for you and it's a gift for you from my side.After that she asked me some more times, did you use my writing for your work. I said “not yet as I don't want to take anyone's credit. It was written by you so I thought it's not fair that I get the credit” but she forced me to use it at my work place. I agreed and used it at my work place. I got some appreciation because of her.One day I was using a social media site and I saw that writing which someone posted on her status. I was shocked as I used this at my work place by using my name. I called to my friend and asked her clearly about it. At starting she got angry and said you didn't believe me so why are you still talking to me. You can close this chapter and leave me alone. I said ok and left her alone at that time.Next day she called me and wanted to clear all this issue, so she said, ya it was my writing but I published this everywhere without mentioning my name. May be that person did copy paste on her status. I said ok but you should inform me that you published it everywhere so I didn't use this at my work place but she was still giving me excuses.Now I am confused to trust her again as she knows very well, that her this mistake will make a trouble or it will messy up my condition in front of my colleagues. But what to do…. People over here are really not trustworthy….”She completed her tragedy and then she started asking me about my point of view! She asked that what do I think regarding it. I told her that nowadays it's really common to deceive someone. If you'll take it seriously you will get much pain so just avoid and try to forget all that what happened.People will betray you many times, would you each and every time hurt yourself for their mistake? It's in their nature just like when we don't want to talk to someone and the same person calls. What do we do? We just lie that we aren't present at our house. We just lie on this little thing. So try to forgive the one who hurts you and never forget what it taught you!So my humble request to you is, try to forget all that issue and start your routine life normally…...
It was hard to decide when someone we trust betrayed us. We'll have the feeling of all the disappointment. Jet Lee in a movie said "The more we close, the more we will be deeply hurt"
First, I thought that it was not good anyway to use someone's writing, but if the person permitted and we, as her friend wanted to appreciate it, it's okay we use it. But, this is one of the lesson for us....that we must be careful to trust someone, to consider that she/he trustworthy. Thanks for the nice topic, Jyoti.
Just a suggestion, Jyoti. I hope you can manage your good writing in good paragraphs and notice more punctuation. So, members would easily read and understand your writing. Thank you for sharing. :)
It is the 'expectations' which hurt not the 'trust' when breaches. It is in the stinct of the people to ignore the importance of trust we have, it will surely happen. One trust will be broken, the other will be shattered and they will pass smiling never seeing the broken heart and never hearing the sound of shattering ego.
It is the 'expectations' which hurt not the 'trust' when breaches!
It was an interesting and well written blog. You well said that we are not much intelligent to know and judge other persons. But these bitter adventures lesson us and make us to be more experienced. But in that case (dedicating that paragraph), I think she must check it herself and validate it via internet. So, she herself also has done a wrong work that without any validation, she has submitted that paragraph for an important work.
A broken trust would be so hard to be repaired. But before calling our friends as people who are not trustworthy it's better to listen to them and their explanations. A friendship is built on trust so we should be so careful.
Trust is earned and it takes time to build. But when you made a terrible mistake to a person who trusted you a lot, it will ruin everything, and every words you'll say will be questionable to that person. So never break someone's trust.
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It was hard to decide when someone we trust betrayed us. We'll have the feeling of all the disappointment. Jet Lee in a movie said "The more we close, the more we will be deeply hurt"
First, I thought that it was not good anyway to use someone's writing, but if the person permitted and we, as her friend wanted to appreciate it, it's okay we use it. But, this is one of the lesson for us....that we must be careful to trust someone, to consider that she/he trustworthy. Thanks for the nice topic, Jyoti.
Just a suggestion, Jyoti. I hope you can manage your good writing in good paragraphs and notice more punctuation. So, members would easily read and understand your writing. Thank you for sharing. :)
It is the 'expectations' which hurt not the 'trust' when breaches. It is in the stinct of the people to ignore the importance of trust we have, it will surely happen. One trust will be broken, the other will be shattered and they will pass smiling never seeing the broken heart and never hearing the sound of shattering ego.
It is the 'expectations' which hurt not the 'trust' when breaches!
Dear Jyoti
It was an interesting and well written blog. You well said that we are not much intelligent to know and judge other persons. But these bitter adventures lesson us and make us to be more experienced. But in that case (dedicating that paragraph), I think she must check it herself and validate it via internet. So, she herself also has done a wrong work that without any validation, she has submitted that paragraph for an important work.
Thanks for sharing
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