Hi!
I didn't plan to post a blog today but as I feel I need to do it. I chose the title for this blog "Time to assess your own life" because today i have my Happy birthday and I look on this day as a control point on the life road.
A birthday day isn't only a day when you get presents, great words and attention of all people but for me it's time for definite questions that can help you to assess your own presence on this planet.
And I asked myself "Am I good person?" We can get answer only if we assess real facts and events that can help us to prove it. The thing is that you shouldn't be loved and accepted by everyone on this planet but this special day can show the attitude of real people around you.
Then I asked myself "Do i lead a good life, do correct things and what is my biggest success in this life for the planet? Did I create anything special for the future? Is my life worth living? Don't I spend time just sleeping, eating, chatting and doing other things?" I guess these questions are a bit hard for us because here we need to face the true facts and deeds of our real life. and here we should be totally honest that if we didn't do anything, then ...we spent a useless life... for yourself...for your planet...for your future....
After that I asked myself "How many of my dreams have come true by this time of my life?"
And "Do I like the life I have now? Do I want to change it? If yes, then how?"
As you see, "Happy birthday day" with years turns into a time when we should ask ourselves many questions and the number of positive answers should increase with every year.
I believe that if you share positivity with this world, it will get back to you from many sides. So on this day I wish you to lead an effective life where every day is a step to your next goal and every year at least 5 of your small dreams came true.
Also I want to wish you to get warm and sweet words from people around you at least several times a week and to remember those people who stayed in your past. They taught you something and every person on our life way isn't just a person but a teacher who can teach you something useful.
I wish you to blossom like a flower and not to close yourself but to open like a beautiful rose.
And I know that all those things I wrote before are hard to realize so I wish you strengths and will to succeed in it.
Have a great evening, BeeBee
Comments
Elen, thanks for your feedback and congratulations :)
Happy birthday Honey Bee! I want to wish you health which is the most important thing in life! I agree with you that people who comes and go in our life and people who are still in our life teach us some things. Some of our dreams are so big that it is hard to make them come true but at least it worths to try. Thank you for your wishes, very nice blog!
Lara, thanks :) wish you the same :)
Dear Bee ,,
Thank you for this very nice and positive blog as we used to see from you in EC .
I wish for you a great life full with happiness and i wish you achieve all your goals since now till the 5 next years .
dara gino, we are all different :) I think that most of our problems come from the comparison between ourselves and people around us. I guess we should avoid it :)
Piviet Honey Bee! I am good. You are better than me. A third person could be the best!