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Following is the blog I have written on the request of Lady Noor while she won the GUESS MY WORD puzzle solving it by finding the correct word ERR.

In this blog I have tried to use almost all synonyms of ERR. You people have to decide how far I am successful in my attempt.  Thanks,

There is no chance to ERR.

I am surprised that you have asked me to advice in the matter of love your friend trying to persuade you in spite that he is married. 

I will not be erring if I may stop you from going into any relationship with that man, because if you do so you will go astray from right thought or belief. But do not worry I will not do any such thing.

 I want to know before I give you any advice that do you know what is “EGO”. This is called “Ana” in Urdu. ‘Khuddari” “Apna Pan”, Izat-e-Nafs. “Self respect” I also call it “Standing tall”.

Now I come to the point. I want you to keep all what I have said above.

Before going ahead it should be assessed that how serious both of you. I have guessed that you are serious in your emotions and do not have any sinful thought, but how the other side feels I do not have any idea.  I am not sure that he will not deviate from the true course of love, but at the same time I doubt that he already have wife, in this case he is mistaken by claiming that he, in spite of having married another girl, still loves you.  This is an incorrect attitude

Again I guess that the other side seems not that interested as you are otherwise you would not have any need to ask my advice.  You seems to be in stray thought.  You must keep yourself calm and controlled, otherwise you will deviate from your own life and you may stumble to some mistakes. 

I once again say “keeping all the words I have said above" in your mind, you should ask yourself whether you are misjudging his still inclination towards  you.  You should ask him why he is still claiming to love you when he has already married other girl by his own will and not because of any miscalculation.

Suppose upon your asking you will not have any such encouragement from him, and he proved to be flirting with you and having time pass, then where will your EGO stand. Please do not get me wrong that I am discouraging you I just want you to be prepared for all circumstances.

Here I would also like you to recall my just last message regarding “Opening of heart and expectations” Please read it again and again.

I am sorry if you feel any discouragement in my talks. My problem is this that I believe in GRACE and DIGNITY even in love and relationship.  There is no option to err.  In the matter of relationship, love and amicability, there is no chance even for a boo-boo.