Not that I'm saying that this is perfect,but then nothing ought to be perfect anyway.
So I suppose there will always come that time when you need to lie about a certain thing, another when will you feel the urge to take what isn't yours,another when your feelings will be so messed up you will end up breaking someone. Another when you will be too helpless to stand by those you promised to always be there for. Another when your weakness will win over your optimism. And another when you will fall and let the closest people to you down.
So basically you will lie,cheat,steal,break and disappoint. And NO I'm not gonna tell you this makes you bad or that all of us have that bad side. I'm gonna tell you that this is quite normal. Envy,fear,weakness are all quite normal feelings for us to go through. The challenge isn't avoiding them as most of all assume ; the real challenge is not to live by them. Not to make your whole life a lie or a cheat. Not to live breaking people and eventually yourself. But to learn. From each and every weakness moment, learn that the next time you'll be stronger. And that you're never bad. That you're only "Human".
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"Tis true what you say, Shah. Sweet lies, petty thefts and little falls - few people manage to avoid these. And then they become saints. But we ,mere humans, need to live and learn, and forgive others as we forgive ourselves.
This may sound cliche, but I do holding true to the fact that 'to err is human'. Our life is a long live of plannings and executions. Sometimes we will be successful, and sometimes we will fall. In between, we may make a lot of mistakes. But we need to make those mistakes into long life lessons and learn from them. We may successful in our life lessons, or we may not. After all, we are only human.
Dear friend
it is good that people learn from their mistake . unfortunately most of us don't learn our lesson. any way u r an expert in painter.
Shah, fear is the underlying cause of most human's character defects and shortcomings. We're afraid of losing something, not making a good first impression, saying the wrong thing at a critical point in a conversation, loosing something we hold near and dear to our hearts, etc. etc. The natural "knee jerk" or impulsive reaction of a person acting on fear based emotion can manifest it's self in many negative ways. Some project their feelings onto other people. Some internalize it. Either way, it always comes back to haunt you when you least expect it. The only solution I've ever found to this life long problem is to identify my own feelings and shortcomings, be aware of what the solution is (faith, trust, and optimism) and put it into action. When doing so, I tend to view the world around me from a whole new set of eyes. Suddenly, the coming day seems full of hope and promise rather than drudgery and despair.
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