It's just a thought that I never want to hurt anyone, either by my hand or by my tongue. Honestly, I do not want to be excessively proud of myself or being conceited. That is not my track, to cause any harm or pain to anyone. Naturally, no one knows what evil lurks in the hearts of others. It's strange that some people find enjoyment in torturing others. Making different means, or use their scheme of things to hurt others. The more others are hurt, that will be their great expectations and achievements. Inflicting physical or emotional pain is their biggest relief. Damaging the character of someone is their goal. Some people criticize my writing quite severely and that really hurts me, but patience is my great weapon. I never quarrel or express any dissatisfaction or grumble, instead, I let my work do the response.A famous writer is criticized severely and of course, that causes a great pain for him or her. Why that someone "X" of men or women is successful? The hatred or envy churn inside them. Some people are easily affected or rather they are easily influenced by certain or specific movements from those who envy or hate them. It's better to clean our hearts from diseases, hypothetical corruption or sinister connection of any kind. Our spirits and souls should be pure and free of any impedances that hinder our development and progress.
Mamnoon Setareh! Awalein, dosti shoma. Going back to your nice comment, if they do it kindly and respectfully, we can accept it. We are not perfect. We have defects. If you show me my defects in a way that you wanted me to change or repair them, in that case, I will be grateful. But that was not their point. If I could count my defects, then I am very good. My lady, our defects are plenty. We cannot count them by the fingers. Thanks for your nice comment. I hope to be one of your friends.
Bahut shukriya Mishaikh janab! Mr. Estanis is a wise man, but you know what? Arguing with them will trigger more nonsense. The best way is to stop or rather ignore such small matters. Thanks, Mishaikh for your nice and guiding comment.
Dear Dara! LIke many others, I like your blogs. This one seems to express what we all think about. I have never understood sociopathes, those who get pleasure torturing others physically or mentally. Such people are really sick.
No one likes to be criticized, but right critics makes us realize our mistakes and shortcomings. I am used to being criticized and I am thankful that others sometimes tell me the truth.
The best way to deal with these people is to ignore them completely and keep going. I think you are already doing it and I congratulate you on your patience and sensibleness. God bless. :)
Dear Sir! Firstly I want to thank you for your patience and kindness. And thanks Eva for saying sorry on behave of such critic.
Sir, we find such critic everywhere around the word, they criticize out of jealousy or sometimes just do it out of habit.. But fear of criticism is the key problem that stops us from achieving success.
It is a nature of a critic to criticize others, when successful reach your door, they target you to be criticized and the criticism gets stronger than before as much as you achieve in life . if you’re not successful at all, or just kind of average nobody going to say anything, just think this way, Sir.
When we get criticized we react defensively, it is normal, but I noticed you did not react in this way, rather you are handling so politely and calmly. Because you are so kind, you don’t want to waste your energy just focusing, and answering the different critics and haters, being creative you are doing what you love, you make yourself busy by focusing on the people who really love what you’re doing, persons who build your confidence and you build theirs. Hats off you, Sir.
Dear Dara, we are all sensitive; even when we ask others to tell our weak points, we expect them to do it kindly and with respect. There is one simple rule" behave others the way you like others behave you." Wish you all the best.
Dara, they are not normal, they are psycho. But this is life as it is we can't turn them all in our favour. See my some blogs turned controversial by these people and I had to argue again and again against my nature. I would repeat Estanis advice for you, this is from me too.
Thanks for sharing your view points.
I take inspiration 'how to being patient" from you. Be the way you are.
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Mamnoon Setareh! Awalein, dosti shoma. Going back to your nice comment, if they do it kindly and respectfully, we can accept it. We are not perfect. We have defects. If you show me my defects in a way that you wanted me to change or repair them, in that case, I will be grateful. But that was not their point. If I could count my defects, then I am very good. My lady, our defects are plenty. We cannot count them by the fingers. Thanks for your nice comment. I hope to be one of your friends.
Bahut shukriya Mishaikh janab! Mr. Estanis is a wise man, but you know what? Arguing with them will trigger more nonsense. The best way is to stop or rather ignore such small matters. Thanks, Mishaikh for your nice and guiding comment.
Dear Dara! LIke many others, I like your blogs. This one seems to express what we all think about. I have never understood sociopathes, those who get pleasure torturing others physically or mentally. Such people are really sick.
No one likes to be criticized, but right critics makes us realize our mistakes and shortcomings. I am used to being criticized and I am thankful that others sometimes tell me the truth.
Thanks for such a nice blog.
Dear Sir Dara,
The best way to deal with these people is to ignore them completely and keep going. I think you are already doing it and I congratulate you on your patience and sensibleness. God bless. :)
Dear Dara,
people are different. Someone will like you and someone will hate you. This is the world. I like your writing, thank you so much for sharing.
Dear Sir! Firstly I want to thank you for your patience and kindness. And thanks Eva for saying sorry on behave of such critic.
Sir, we find such critic everywhere around the word, they criticize out of jealousy or sometimes just do it out of habit.. But fear of criticism is the key problem that stops us from achieving success.
It is a nature of a critic to criticize others, when successful reach your door, they target you to be criticized and the criticism gets stronger than before as much as you achieve in life . if you’re not successful at all, or just kind of average nobody going to say anything, just think this way, Sir.
When we get criticized we react defensively, it is normal, but I noticed you did not react in this way, rather you are handling so politely and calmly. Because you are so kind, you don’t want to waste your energy just focusing, and answering the different critics and haters, being creative you are doing what you love, you make yourself busy by focusing on the people who really love what you’re doing, persons who build your confidence and you build theirs. Hats off you, Sir.
Dear Dara, we are all sensitive; even when we ask others to tell our weak points, we expect them to do it kindly and with respect. There is one simple rule" behave others the way you like others behave you." Wish you all the best.
Dara, they are not normal, they are psycho. But this is life as it is we can't turn them all in our favour. See my some blogs turned controversial by these people and I had to argue again and again against my nature. I would repeat Estanis advice for you, this is from me too.
Thanks for sharing your view points.
I take inspiration 'how to being patient" from you. Be the way you are.
Mashkoor ya Iraqi! Shunoo nasawi? Thanks for your nice comment!
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