Well this is my first blog here... I already started write blogs since 2012 but I had no courage to publish and let people read it. But now, I find my self enjoy to write and publish it (I would love it if you correct the grammar/vocab). Frankly, I never want to let everybody knows this story but I need your perspective to help me open my mind :)
Love is something that will never run out for discussion. Even the famous people will raise the theme of love for their creation (song, movie, book, etc). Love is something hardly to be define because it is true only can be felt. That is how I feel right now... I had read some discussion here talk about "cyber love" which results different arguments. I can barely understand what inside my head, I asked a lot of people about their belief of cyber love but mostly they are contra of it. I know an online guy for around a year over a few months and was having a great days until I fell in love with him. He knew it and deemed me as his girlfriend all of a sudden. A huge drama between us happened that finally he decided to walk away. It has been 5 months since he left but I'm hardly can move on. We totally lost contact. Almost everyday I think about him even if I know he wouldn't do the same. Two days ago I sent him a mail and my guess is right that he doesn't even reply. But I have to accept the reality that life isn't as beautiful as a fairy tale I created. This is what I called as a strange love. I never met him but I always get comfortable with him. People whom never trapped such in this circumstances wouldn't be able to understand...
If I got a wish, I wish I could back turn the time or I choose to forget all about him. But people said, what has gone is gone. And nothing lasts forever.
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Hey Nina!
Firstly I want to say thank to you for giving your nice advice to me. Sure, I will never get bored to hear such good things to me. The more I hearing, the more my mind opened. You also absolutely right that it's really affect on how I should act wisely, and so many other things that I can't mention. All the best for you too!
I really loved your simplicity and honesty in writing.Good job...I'm sorry if I'm going to repeat the words you've heard from so many , I hope there will be even a small novel point for you there.
I think the word cyber should make you pause when you hear about cyber love.Cyber world is a kind of connector world.it's just a tool for joints , and unfortunately lacks wisdom and faith , that's why it may come up with some sad-ending and disastrous ones.I don't want to claim that no true love can be found around but I firmly tell you that cyber world is not a reliable place for that.People try to picture the best of themselves here sometimes , even more than what they do in reality.And you can't read minds , so you're unaware of people's purpose on the net.And you know that the Internet is large enough to include all sorts of purposes.
Cool down and think about what happened to you as an experience you learned from.Set goals for what you're doing around and don't let anyone discover your heart and mind unless you're sure he deserves it.
Wish you all the best
Nina.
Hi EC Member!
Actually I was thinking about the delusion I created, but after knowing that I'm not the only one here who ever experienced in such thing, I become confused again. But you are right, internet can't provide intact love. See, my favorite part is "consider that person as a toy" which I never thought about it before lol :)
Diah, you cant experience true love on the internet trust me because when you find real love you'll get it. Love has some requirements that the internet will never be able to provide with, so you your feeling might be delusion of your ideas being in love rather than feel the love even more you have never seen that person. Consider that person as a toy of your past who you used to enjoy with and move on, get a new one and enjoy life)
Hello Estanis, yes you absolutely true. Not every things are negative :)
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, just be ready to receive every event in your life, not all them are negative :)
(Just my opinion)
You're the 100000 people who said this Svitlana :) This is not the end of my life haha
Sure, Mishaikh. As people said there are many ways to go to Rome!
Hi Rosemary! Finally I'm not the only one because I thought that I'm such a weirdo, lmao. Sure, I will and you're right with your words. Let's move forward :)
You are not the one who was trapped in such kind of situation dear. Most of people who feel lonely are looking for love and real feelings online. But i want to warn you that virtual love can't be real. You can find true love only in real life. Of course, social network is a good way to meet someone special. However, If you want your feelings to turn to love you should meet that someone in reality. Otherwise your relationship is doomed to have the sad end. Also i would like to add, don't be sad about your love story. Who knows? Maybe this person was not yours and everything was only the flight of your fancy. Life is going on!
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