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My blog might be little bit controversial but I decided to come up with this topic because to close our eyes and pretend that the word RAPE doesn't exist would be simply cowardish act. Without doubt rape is a crime and crime should be punished but unfortunately many rapists will never be imprisoned and will keep on raping over and over again. This is very sad reality. No woman in this world derserves to be raped!!! This is more than clear fact because each human being should be respected, not humiliated. A man, who is able to rape a woman is simply not a man. Such monster is either mentally sick (not his fault but should be locked or castrated) or totally sexually frustrated person, who thinks that each woman he likes, can be his.

If we check some data about rape and criminality we can see that South Africa is the kingdrom of all the rapists. According to the statistics 40% of women living there are, were or will be one day raped. Isn't this fact alarming???! If we move eastern in the map to India, I bet you remember well-known case of the girl raped by gang on the bus hurt with the iron stick but apart from this, many other cases were published in media and what is damn sad is that every 20-30 minutes somewhere out there in India is raped one women, even right now while you are reading this blog!

When it comes to Europe, the capital city of all the rapes is Swedish Stockholm, where unfortunately rapes are commited in 70% by immigrants, who came there from the Middle East. Some girls even started to dye their hair not to be blonde, however the situation isn't twice optimistic also in Denmark and Germany. Anyway, when we focus on Arab countries, rape statistics either don't show us any numbers or the number of the rapes is very very low. It looks really great, right? However, are you sure that countries such as Saudi Arabia, Afghanistan or Iran have no problems with rape? Let's move on and visit the USA - country of freedom, which can show us also very sad statistics about sexual violence. Did you know that one of six American women experienced either attempt or completed sexual rape in her lifetime? According to the statistics more than 80% of girls/women in the USA were raped by somebody they knew.

Anyway.. do you know what is the worst about it all??? It is the future life of the victim. Many of them suffer from the post traumatic stress disorder, must take antidepressives and have to visit psychologist to survive. But do you think that all of these women can afford it? That is why some victims commit suicide as they can't overcome with professional help such trauma. Those who survive just know that their life will never be the same, their view on man, their sexual life and everything around is for them different and the most important people in their life such as relatives should try to help them out of such miserable period of life...

Last but not least let me say that I don't percieve rape as a consequence of how she is dressed, how she behaves or what impression she gives. Even if women walked naked on the streets, no man would have right to touch them nor harash them. Once she says NO, it means NO and if somebody can't understand it then he should see ear doctor or get lesson! You know, there isn't exact profile of the rapist as they can be black or white, teenagers or older men, doctors or labors but to sum it up they have one thing in common... THEY DISRESPECT WOMEN!!!

I wish I could give to each victim, who suffered so much, had to go through something so disgusting like rape one beautiful rose becuase all these women/girls are/were brave and should know that what happened to them WASN'T THEIR FAULT!