*SO MANY ARE IN LOVE BUT NOT TOGETHER… SO MANY ARE TOGETHER BUT NOT IN LOVE*A few days ago I read those lines. For a while I was frozen ‘cause It was really very deep cut and it truly touched me. I couldn't sit-in myself from writing something about it. As I members, with sometimes some people facing that type of the strong feeling that we are living with a person without love.Mostly it happens when some people don't know the proper meaning of care, understanding, respect and values of togetherness etc. if someone is in any relationship but don't care of the other person’s thoughts, at that time it's very difficult to make a strong relationship between them.sometimes we just live our life with sacrifices. why so? ‘cause of some fears, or ‘cause of some other reasons. if anyone want to make a true relation they need to understand each other. There's no need to judge that other is wrong and we are perfect. You don't have any right to judge others.Someone said, “ don't hold your relation so tight that it can't take a breath and don't hold your relation so loose that it can run away easily”. Here we have to manage a good balance level in our life.If you need a better life with your loved one you should make a proper way, decide it that what is priority in your life? Prove them that they have a very valuable place in your life. Don't give them a chance to think that they can live without you. Don't give them a chance to choose other priorities than your presence.If someone wants to hold a relationship so first give the proper time on it. Spend some more time with each other and try to understand each other's sentiments. Love, care, understanding, trust, happiness etc one just needs to learn the absolute values of these emotions.At starting of any interconnection, the strong key is * mutual understanding.* If you aren't able to recognize your loved one’s pain from their eyes so it's difficult for them to bare that type of relation,as it's not for some minutes or some hours it's for whole life.I've observed one more thing in human nature if you will follow all instructions, advices, rules of a person, after a little time they change their mind and start to think like they are superior and the better one in the relationship.They always put you down in front others. It’s very devastating.When you feel like this for your dear one, at that time you think, why are we together without any love and respect? But sometimes for our culture and sometimes for our other family members we can't take any decision just coercion to live that life
Hello sara, I am sorry if you don't agree to the title but here in my point of view it's the perfect title for this writing. As I wrote this blog because of this quote and in my writing i shared my views that if people are not in love so why are they together?
Why do you write so good? Your topics are all interesting. You must be a very interesting person, haha! Your blog reminded me of a line from a movie:
The leading lady in that movie asked her man: "Do you love me because you need me or do you need me because you love me?"
Life is full of ironies. These ironies may take us to the peak of our success or to the bottom pit of our failure ... still, we found life worth living for.
Live to the fullest, enjoy with thanksgiving, be content and be happy... One day, this life will be taken from us and we are no more!
I read in a book that when two persons enter in a relationship in the very moment if one tries to live up for the expectations of the other one she or he will not be herself or himself anymore. when you can not be your real self sooner or later you will find out that the other person isn't the right one for you, so you wouldn't be able to continue the relationship let alone to love him or her. so first we should be ourselves and then accept and love the other person just the way they are.
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Yes Jyoti you write so well, but why there is a taste of sourness in your tone (you must have some TULKH (sour) experiences in life).
I have a major question, Jyoti.
Why do you write so good? Your topics are all interesting. You must be a very interesting person, haha! Your blog reminded me of a line from a movie:
The leading lady in that movie asked her man: "Do you love me because you need me or do you need me because you love me?"
Life is full of ironies. These ironies may take us to the peak of our success or to the bottom pit of our failure ... still, we found life worth living for.
Live to the fullest, enjoy with thanksgiving, be content and be happy... One day, this life will be taken from us and we are no more!
I am your fan!
I read in a book that when two persons enter in a relationship in the very moment if one tries to live up for the expectations of the other one she or he will not be herself or himself anymore. when you can not be your real self sooner or later you will find out that the other person isn't the right one for you, so you wouldn't be able to continue the relationship let alone to love him or her. so first we should be ourselves and then accept and love the other person just the way they are.
Bright facts of life are there in your blog above. Thanks for putting light on them.