The people are such weird creatures that feel emotions. One of these emotions is sentimental.
Sentiment is a feeling that gives happines and suffering, peace and nervousness, pleasure and hate at the same time. You feel good because you are happy to know that you got such a good time, but in the same moment you feel so bad because that time has gone.
An easy way to feel sentiments is to remember something good and think about it as if it does not exist anymore. Just remember one situation from your life, even a small thing that is not needed to anybody can be very important to you because of feelings (I still keep some stupid stone from the mountains)... oh no, don't do that, because you will feel that emotions right now. Ah you have already did it? Sorry then, i don't like to see someone sad and don't like to know that somewhere there is someone who feel sad right now...
Sentimental is an trifle, don't worry about it, forget and never remember because that trifle can ruin your life and transform your life into hell. This is an spice in delight food, so you can spoil it adding too much... People who feel sentiment - almost always suffer. Have you ever heard such a phrase: I would give everything in the world to come there again, or to see someone one more time, or to do something one more time? I don't want you to stop feel that feeling, i just want people to stop hurting themselves with no reason.
Ofcourse, some people can tell you "Ahh, how great was my old good days at sea... I remember it as if it was yesterday: the sun shine brightly, i ran along the golden sand of the beach, the wind blew my hair softly, and at night I hear how the waves rush" with smile on their face, but they prefer not to tell you about another side of medal, to be honest nobody prefer to tell about pain you feel because of that... Yeah, funny situation - people smile on their faces while they are crying in their souls.
Someone is sad about his/her teddy bear since childhood... someone allways remembers that strange places where he/she visited long time ago... almost always it's a feeling that comes after separating or right in the moment of separating with something or someone because you know that you may never come back here again, or never see something or someone again. You know, i've just remembered that there in mountains in the west of my country right now there is mountain slope where i hurt my leg many years ago, and may that place remember about me like i remember about it? That place has not gone somewhere...
Ah and finaly about me. I have bad habit to feel sentimental before that moment to say goodbye comes or even right in the moment of meeting... I know that one person - user of this site was right when said " And we all will leave this site once and maybe even without saying bye" which means that we'll force people to suffer. So should we say sorry before met someone in case that time when we will be separated definitely come?
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Omg... Lucinka! I just read your comment again. Yes, I feel nostalgical right now, when I am thinking back about writing this blog... Omg, it was 6 months ago, but I remember as it happened yesterday.
Hmmm... I didn't know that... Or maybe I knew but didn't realize... Thank you Rosemary!
Okay ;) , they claim that men do really feel things stronger , that , is why we have many poets more than poetess ... Years ago I used to stand aganist gender differences . But today , I tend to believe in them
Hi Rosemary! Thank you for nice comment and sharing your thoughts. But it is not so easy to keep emotions under control... ALthough I am not a woman.
Thank you Onee! I think he is right!:D
Ur blog reminds of a poem I have read years ago and still ring a bell inside of my head
It's sentiments where gloomness and pains are from
Oh let's go beyond our sentiments
It's good to care for others but in a moderate way being excessively sentimental, means that the person isn't in balance . We should hold our measuring stick right and keep our emotions under control , a thing I fail to do many time , maybe because I am a women . Thanks for sharing ur thoughts with us Roman and as they say
When wounds are deep they don't bleed
When sadness is real , there's no shed of tears
Sometimes people hide things like their sentiments but u know them by they way they behave ..........
I remember the words from my senior. When you want to have good relationship with people, you should remember these three words.
GRATITUDE , APOLOGY , and COMPLIMENT. :)
Thank you AG! Mixer is good comparison))) I am glad to read your comment!
this sounds like a mixture of emotions and thoughts which are put into a mixer and beaten into a nice blog..
It's a nice blog... and it's divulging who is our new and surprisingly active member here :)
nice to read you, Rome :)
Ok, Onee-chan, but you know, sometimes we are getting such a feeling without making any mistake.