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I've read this from a female forum and I want to share it to all women out there who's interested to be what they call "FASCINATING WIFE"

Please take note that this is only savvy women who have healthy self-preservation and must have pure intention of being a better wife when you apply this principles.

1. Accept him for what he is - look from his good side and never try to change him. Forgive him for hurting you from the past and humbly apologize to him for any mistakes done. Give him his freedom and let him enjoy his life the way he wants it. List down his masculine virtues

2. Admire his masculine qualities - never ever wound his sensitive pride; instead, admire him for his masculine qualities. It is the man deepest misery to be belittled by a woman.

3. Make him number 1 in your life - comfort him with tenderly when he is tired or down. Appreciate his responsibility. Use him the power of sympathy and loving when he comes home weary. Do not raise a problem until he has eaten.

4. Your husband's God-given role is to lead you and provide for you, allow him to do that. - a woman roles is to be his companion, a mother of his children and a homemaker. Let him know you views but support his opinions 100% and let him decide about the finances.

5. Men secretly admire inner serenity and goodness of their wives - they want you to be a better person than himself. Goodness and serenity are required in a woman for a man to love her deeply. Inner serenity develops in a woman when she becomes free of pride and self-righteousness, always does and says the right thing, free from guilt, and has a forgiving heart.

6. Your God-given role is that - a mother and homemaker. enjoy it. - Motherhood is the most noble and important job on earth. Enjoy the wonderful satisfaction on raising happy and secure children. Husband respect motherhood. Allow time to enjoy your homemaking. Homemaking is a wife and mother life-long career. Do it well.

7. Make the most of your hair, your figure and your health - your appearance is more important to your husband. Most of them find longer, femininely styled hair highly appealing. Maintain your ideal weight by regular exercise and sound nutrition. A lovely smile is a priceless asset of a woman.

8. Femininity delights a man, depending on him arouses his love - to be feminine and attractive to men, do and wear the opposite to what they do, appear to be helpless in masculine matters. Speak cheerfully, with a melodious lilt on your voice.

9. To obtain your wants from your husband, just ask with a smile, as a young girl ask his father - ask submissively, with a smile and please. Your husband will love you more if you will allow him to spoil you a little. Show him your feminine appreciation in an exuberant, childlike way.

10. Handle your anger in a feminine and childlike manner - Men respect a spirited woman. Release your anger as soon as it arises, in a childlike manner. Show anger against your husband only when you have clearly mistreated. Express it in a feminine or childlike way that allows him to feel manly and protective.