Hi All,
Here I am trying to bring the reason behind the divorce and the solution. I felt many cases the "Ego" of the couples is the main reason. Both couples are having Ego and ready to compromise for anything. Finally it leads to separation. If they are having kid or kids, they are going to impact worst.
How to prevent it?
Nature made all solutions for everything
Physical relationship between partners are a good medicine for bursting the ego. In physical relationship, Woman can't get full advantage without coming down in front of a man. Same time, Man will loose everything and surrender in front of woman at the end. If couples are ready to compromise for their physical needs, definitely they will loose ego and enjoy both the life. Child will get great parents.To have long lasting relationships, couples should have physical relationship more frequently.
What you think?
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Luci,
I am talking here about healthy couples. Not some special cases. If the couples are healthy and still having divorce? I am trying to get answer for it
I wouldn't say so... what if one of them has some healthy problems? It shouldn't cause divorce omg because sex is 50% of relationship... not 100%... your partner should be your best friend - that's it...
Friends, If couples are ready to compromise for the difference between them, it may be money or ideology or anything.... Their life will be long lasting. Having physical relationship will also need compromise to satisfy. This will teach them to compromise each other. The moment you stop physical relationship is the indication of divorce in future. Just if long days not having the physical relationship, one should initiate the physical relationship and stop divorce.
I also disagree :D it is as if you said.....let women be dependent on their husbands, stick on them - then they won't dare to get divorced... look - here women are independent for long time but lately number of divorces rapidly raised and my opinion is that they don't take marriage so seriously, they disrespect it... the question is why...
Suku, do you really think any problem that a couple may have, like a lack of money, different positions about upbringing of their kids, differences between their personal moral principles and so on, can be compensated only by a frequent physical relationship? I don’t think so.
I am sorry, Batuhan, but I cannot get agreed with you? Yes, if we go back into past we can see that women (or a big part of them) were less educated, so they just got married, stayed at home and looked after their kids meanwhile doing the whole house work. Did they have any other options? No! So, they might have not been happy in their marriage, but they wouldn’t say a word, because the lack of their own income didn’t allow them to do it. History shows so many cases where women have been repressed by their husbands, but they didn’t even think about divorce, because they couldn’t afford it.
Things are completely different nowadays, but sometimes it seems like not all men are used to today’s situation and while there are men who still live in 90’s, divorces will be increasing.
Don’t get me wrong, I am not saying men are the only ones to blame, not at all, it always takes two to tango. When I think of eventual reasons for divorce, OMG, so many things come to my mind. Probably people have too high expectations towards their partners…
There was a couple in my relative, a boy who was of normal looking (not dashing), married (arranged) with a girl who was more educated than him. She could not cope up with this simple looking guy. Once the boy heard her talking with her friends about her disliking of him and laughing all about his not being dashing. So the conflict increased and resulted in divorce. I mean nothing works when there is no understanding between the couple and there are differences of liking and disliking about each other, and even there is no respect of each other's emotions. Then all the efforts to resolve problems are gone in vain.
Do you mean sex? Frank asked about this. I also like to know your answer with that. :)
I am discussing here how to prevent Divorce. Ego is the reason, It may be due to money or social status or anything else. The physical relation will kill ego. Those want long lasting relationship should have physical relationship regularly
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