What a dreadful occasion is when you are talking to the others people,that something in the middle of both yours communication which make one of you feels not easy to reply immediately.It's normal that has appeared on most of us.Some of us has just gone outside for working from graduation,so that everything is new to them in the true life.On the other hand,some of us has experienced during their trip in life.As the time goes by,we have got hands-on experienced from a large number of things,especially on talking to strange people and can reply the suit words at once.
For instance,i went to have my dinner with two of my friends tonight,as usual we made jokes on each others.When we were kidding the others one of the two friends,Anna said,"The service is not good indeed",i suddenly said "you may go home now,we will be enjoying our dinner even you are not here"(of course,we are very familiar to each other,don't think that i am a crude man),As soon i had said this to her,she quikly answered with smiling on her face"Waiter,please wrap up these foods for me,i am going home right now".She is very smart than i expected,and i said nothing about this answer.
It's just a simple story that happened in our communication,but it can happen in different conditions with different ways.So,how can we do it well when this kind of occasions happened to take place on us?As i think,we should calm down at first,because we don't need to reply as quikly as the ones who ended their words,it means we still have sometime to think about it,then answer in the fit words.not only had we stick upour reputation,but makes you were adored by the ones as well.
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noaslpsls,we are good friends that why i made such a joke on them,but thanks for the enthusiastic advises to me,thanks dear
Good friends can take jokes from each other easily because they understand each other. Strangers may not take to our jokes or our statement in such manner. Such misunderstandings can happened especially when our words being misinterpreted. Thus, careful wording among strangers or colleagues are better.
MICKEY，you really did "hit the nail on the head",Thanks for the suggestions you kindly offered to me.
hmmm, anyway we should care of others' feeling, and not joke over; on the other hand, be more tolerant, dont put the one who jokes on u into a embarrassing situation.
Thanks hafida
i think with smiling and replying very calm you can solve it.
Hello,Sahar,Thanks
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Yes, you are right. It is not good to answer quickly. But sometimes it happens.
People's reactions isn't in our hands, but we can prevent these situations by our actions.
Thanks for sharing your experience.
Yes,but who knows what will happened in the next talking.
Such embarrassing things do happen! So be careful when we're trying to make a joke!