In appreciation of the vital information that your programme gives, I wish to be a participant on the programme hoping to increase my knowledge through you. The first problem I will want you to please advice me on, is how to increase my self confidence or better still; "how do I build self confidence in my self?"No doubt this lapse in my life makes me to feel inferior to my peers and I sincerely hate myself for this. The situation is so bad with me such that even in the classroom, I can neither ask questions from my teachers nor boldly answer questions for fear of humiliation. Presently, I am a student of computer science in the university; unless I receive help quickly, am afraid timidity may set into my system such that getting the right woman for marriage may be difficult for me in future: this I fear may lead to a ruined marital life even before one starts such a life.I will appreciate your quick response to my sincere request. Thanks and God bless.
I'm not a psycologist, but I think you should try to take more risks and ask your questions to your teacher, participate on things and show your opinions... Don't think you are less than your peers and even that they will laugh at you. You should try to be positive. Start slow and soon you will notice you are getting better. God bless you!!!
Oh! Indeed am very grateful for what yov've done for me. What a splendid remark. May Almighty Allah reward you as you've all done for me. I will make use of your words. Thanks!!
Instead of focusing on negative aspect of your quality, it's good to find your positive sides. For example, one may not be good at English but, one may be very kind, compassionate, caring or good at something else like being handy or running very fast, etc. If we all pay attention to ourselves, we can find at least some characteristics that be proud of. So, it's important to concentrate on the positive qualities. Second, games or sports are great to boost self-confidence. Third, When we are not good at something or make a mistake doesn't mean that we are not worthy at all. Our value doesn't relate to what we are doing.
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Hi Ogundele,
I'm not a psycologist, but I think you should try to take more risks and ask your questions to your teacher, participate on things and show your opinions... Don't think you are less than your peers and even that they will laugh at you. You should try to be positive. Start slow and soon you will notice you are getting better. God bless you!!!
Joyce.
Instead of focusing on negative aspect of your quality, it's good to find your positive sides. For example, one may not be good at English but, one may be very kind, compassionate, caring or good at something else like being handy or running very fast, etc. If we all pay attention to ourselves, we can find at least some characteristics that be proud of. So, it's important to concentrate on the positive qualities. Second, games or sports are great to boost self-confidence. Third, When we are not good at something or make a mistake doesn't mean that we are not worthy at all. Our value doesn't relate to what we are doing.