Dear Members ,
Those who are in Relationship ,Married couples,Teenagers this blog is for you .
Through this blog I would like to Remind you some things which can help in your future while thinking for a new born .How to Become good parents/how to be friendly with the child to understand him till he/she's stands on his/her feet :)
With the new era and new generation ,thinking also changes with time so as the Nature and Needs.
You need to have these qualities for your's child Future and Betterment.
1.) You Have to be involved in your childs life : Being an involved parent takes time and is hard work, and it often means rethinking and rearranging your priorities. It frequently means sacrificing what you want to do for what your child needs to do. Be there mentally as well as physically.
2.)Adapt Yourself Parenting To Fit your child :Keep pace with your child's development. Your child is growing up. Consider how age is affecting the child's behavior and behave accordingly .
3.)Establish and set Rules :If you don't manage your child's behavior when he is young, he will have a hard time learning how to manage himself when he is older and you aren't around,Once they're in middle school, you need let the child do their own homework, make their own choices, and not intervene.
4.)Foster child independence: Setting limits helps your child develop a sense of self-control. Encouraging independence helps her develop a sense of self-direction.
5.)Avoid harsh discipline : Parents should never hit a child, under any circumstances. "Children who are spanked, hit, or slapped are more prone to fighting with other children and misbehavior.
6.)Treat Your Child With Respect :The best way to get respectful treatment from your child is to treat him respectfully ,You should give your child the same courtesies you would give to anyone else. Speak to him politely. Respect his opinion. Pay attention when he is speaking to you. Treat him kindly. Try to please him when you can. Children treat others the way their parents treat them. Your relationship with your child is the foundation for her relationships with others.
7.)Plan your Money :yes when you got the money then only you should plan a child its very important because in future he/she will demand the necessities and sometimes spending on party and birthdays sometimes spending on his career and all ......... you need to get yourself prepared before for the upcoming responsibilities .
8.)Make the child participate :parents need to make the child participate in events,co curricular activities to find the hidden talent which will help in future for choosing the correct profession ,even participating in family functions, rituals.etc.
9.) Look at your child: parents need to watch each and every activity her/his child does in life ,whom ,which kind of people he meets , need to speak to teachers and even provide him councelling for betterment .
10.)know you child and let child know :parents need to know the child by interpreting with him , even the parents must tell the child always truth and at correct time make child aware about nature and other things .Always be with the child in hard situations :)
Ther's even more but I only Mentioned what I saw most important "have a happy Family ".
I hope this blog of mine helps you !
Thankyou !
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