I have seen so many people coming, staying and passing on my journey of life, and just small part of them we still sort of keep in touch and just several become my best friends.
There was a time when I was totally confused that whether I should spend so much time dealing with the people you meet and trying to know them so that I could possibly make them become my friends, for most of the people you meet in your life, such as classmates, schoolmates or colleagues and all, once you two are separated for different goals or other, will seldom be encountered again. To be honest, making friends especially the kind that you can share with them something private is a tough work for me, because I just that guy easily influenced by their feelings especially someone I want to make friends with.
Just after a few years, something dramatic happened to my mind, and I realized that: oh, this is the real life itself. Life is something about change, and people coming and passing in our life is just a reflection of it. Life would be pale if all the stuff stay in the same state, and we should be glad that it is never going to take place.
Life changes all the time just like the Earth spins; once you acknowledge this truth, you will be more courageous to cope with your life. Now I am interested in communicating with different people appearing in my life and making friends with them. I don’t complain anymore that people step into my life suddenly and then disappear in some way, because that is the reality that I can’t change and what I can do is just to accept and memorize the time we have ever shared.
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Just realize that you too is a passerby in other people's lives. You have come and gone in another's world just as others did into yours. Sometimes, it's not about who stayed in your life the longest, but who has left you with good memories you can treasure for a lifetime.
Good blog, Lin!
People comes and goes. They will flavour to our life, otherwise our life will become mundane routine.
It is sadness to discover that some friends’ promises are changed and turned out to be nothing more than a fake bubble .
We can't change the rules of this 'game' so, let's join them :)
You are totally right. It's hard to separate from a friend who deeply knows you but now a days it's more easy to stay tuned with people who we know just their names and at least know how r they doing!