Generally, it is said, these days are not like old days. Even lots of people like to add, old days were the best days. So, there are many things what we had in our old days, I mean in our childhood or in our young age and now we are missing them. In today's blog I would like to share some of them with you and in return, hope to hear the same from you.
Well, in my childhood there were many play grounds around, big cities to small towns. But, nowadays it has become a scarce thing in my country specially in metropolitan cities. And, of course, we all are missing it badly and kids are in a big trouble.
Gadgets were not a problem at all. Only a few people had Television. people tends to listen to radio though it was also not in everyone's house. During that time many people who did not have radio or television they used to go to other's houses to listen to radio and watch Tv and nobody minds!
I never watched any computer in my childhood and did not hear about mobile! Then making a phone call was a big deal. Only rich/ who had good job had land phone at their workplaces or homes. Yes, we had and it was everybody's asset! And, till now I can say the number.
Young people were more timid specially about their personal and love life. Many necessary information were unknown or unheard. As well as, they had less idea to be the worst too, so not too bad, hu?
Letters were there! People liked to write letters to their parents, close relatives, friends... there were colorful writing pads. People waited passionately to get a reply.
There were no junk food. Only a few people ate out but they did not eat junk food, I bet. In my childhood I had had soft drinks but it was just merinda/fanta and sometimes pepsi.
Even, Ice-cream was not so common and available. It was for the solvent people too. we sometimes asked our maternal granny to make ice-cream for us. And, we felt very proud to say that our grandma could make ice-cream!
people liked to have home made food in all occasions. Most of the people hated to serve store bought food to their guests. Guests also felt bad if they were served store bought food.
A few women did job. Mostly,they were supposed to be at home to take care of their families. Though, educated families prefered to educate their females but doing a job was a far cry. Actually so far I know, girls were taught to be prepared for their future life, I mean to be a good mother.
Oh....in those days financial responsibility was on male's shoulders. During that time families were big. More over, many people lived in join-families.
So, how was your childhood or young age days?
P.S. Only a very few kids had glasses on. Glasses were a thing for the adults because, that time kids used to play outside in their spare time instead sticking before the screens and playing video games! They ate home made food, ate leafy and green. Now, we, everybody, spending more and more time with computers and we should think about it. take care!
Comments
Thanks, Mary...Yes, I do agree in this point that we like things/situations more when we are far away. Needless to say it happens because then we do not need to go with the negativeness or we do not face any hurdles related to that time. So, we can just enjoy the memories of good things...hahaha
Roman, Yes, indeed, we should try to look at the green instead staring at the screen!
I don't want to talk about my childhood (some people say that i am still here) i just want to say that you are right about that situation. So we have to do something... But i don't know what. I know that spending time sitting at the computer is so bad, but i want to do that... This is an loop and addict.
We feel nostalgic about our childhood and early youth days 'cause we tend to sweeten things that we see from the distance. We tend to 'idealize' these old days, and even times that we didn't live (for instance, I love stuff from '50's, '70's and 60's and I didn't even live these times)
But every age had their good and bad things; we just 'pick' what we like more, and usually are moments or images that we have in our mind but which not necessary fits very well with how was the reality... At the end, we just live in our minds.