Good Morning, everybody...
There are two examples here..
First Example:
Dear Estanis published a very interesting post which I was waiting for any member to do it for so long time. Unfortunately I missed the post, because I didn't check the new blogs in that period until it was too late. It was my fault for sure, but also Estanis was hesitant not to bother anybody with notifying him/her about his new blog...
Second Example:
dara gino (and I am very sure that most people here know him very well) keeps chasing members for commenting and liking his contents. It starts when he first sends a friendly message and asks for friendship, continues when he showers your inbox with invitation messages, and doesn't stop until it becomes very bothering with his chasing you in the private chat and other contents of yours.
(Allow me because I am declaring his name here, because I can find no value in what he is doing when he does not count on friendly and natural communication, but on the contrary, only cares about increasing the number of comments on his contents regardless to what values those comments have.)
The Moral:
Here allow me to say that I like it when somebody sends me a message to notify me about his/her new posts which I may miss without his notification. And I feel very happy to go, check, and read that post. And Possibly if I have words to say, I will definitely do it without any hesitation.
But on the other hand, when it comes to chasing me wherever you see me to make me check your valuable or valueless contents just to increase the number of the comments on your posts, this way it tends to become a very bothering and a very shameful of you and more especially when you present yourself as a teacher here.
At last, it's an invitation for all to invite me and others to their contents. And those who keep bothering here, It's also a friendly invitation for them to stop.
Comments
oh, thank you so much for your nice comment, dear :)
It's all about enjoying your personal space of freedom, and having a friendly and healthy communication with others here... Thank you so much for passing by.
Unfortunately I haven't seen this blog before. It is maybe you haven't notifed me, dear AG. LOL
Anyway I totally agree with your lines. Sometimes it is too bothering to get many notifications. If I had free time I would have read all blogs. But to be honest sometimes I don't undertstand some of posts and try not to comment in order not to be mistaken.
You are so brave, dear AG. You have expressed the majority opinion here.
ops, I thought you would be sleeping.. I meant even.. even... even sweeter than Lucy.. yes, this is what I meant of course :D
Rahul Wazir, lol
Hopefully, you will grow into something more disastrous, and then you will meet someone more shitty and much worse than me or even than Lucy to write about you :D
It's OK for me as far as it is about invitation.. I like to be invited and I usually accept when somebody invites me.. but it's only about leaving a space for the person whether he/she wants to check and comment or not.. and in this sense, I am sure that you understand me and you understand that you are very far from the Dara Gino example..
I will check your blog when I will be free, man ;)
Teresa, thank you for your comment :)
Well, maybe It was not a good idea.. I really feel a bit hesitant about it now.
Thank you so much for your comment, Mishaikh.
I want to ask a question AG. Is Mr. Dara committing a crime of insulting and disgracing any member here in EC? If you think so, why don't you just report any of such crime of him to the Admin and request to take an appropriate action? Otherwise inviting comments to discuss any member in person is not a good idea.
I remember, in this form once some member passed a remark about you, which I did react explaining that you are not that type of member which the member was pointing out. Why don't we just leave Mr. Dara letting him do what he likes. If anyone finds his attitude unacceptable just ignore him.
Hi AG, great job & I can't help agreeing with you.