For couple days ago I read an article about the happiness senses. I did it due to my wanting to share my thoughts about in the regular bulletin of my office in order to improve my writing skill. Fortunately, there was not only the meaning of happiness itself but some stories as well, so how lucky I was. However, I will not write those stories here that it does mean I will be plagiarist and I don’t want to be.
The thing that I want to share is that a sentence said “Everything happens for a reason”. I do believe that some of us will disagree with those words and the others do conversely. I myself am one of the people who agree and believe it.
Let me take an example that derives from our daily. Often times we feel mad or disappointed with our lives that are not in line with our objectives or goals. We often blame the conditions that make us to be a looser and also God for the worst. But, after sometimes when our emotional is back to normal and we can think clearly what just happened then we realize that it was the best thing that we needed at that time. At least we can learn from that occurrences or experiences to make us be better person than before. It can also be categorized as happiness. Do you know why? It is because we can accept the things that we should, as well as always be grateful for. The heartfelt is important here.
In additional it is notable to highlight that we cannot only be passive and just be receptive for what God gives. First, we should make effort to achieve our goals or visions in life, taking action. Seeking to do the thing that we can execute by ourselves maximally, than let God finishes the rest. Need to put it in our mind because human has limitations. Therefore if in the end, if the results are not fit with our wanting, it does mean God has the certain better purposes for us and we will be easy to accept the reality and no depression feeling. In the contrary, if the results are corresponding with our objectives or goals, just put gratitude manner for the Grace of Him, so that you will never be smug with others and be humble person.
Wanna put another good quote “Life is like a camera, just focus on what is important. Capture the good times. Develop from the negative and if things do not work out then take another shot.”
Have a good week for you all, my dear friends here
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Hi Onee,
My dear compatriot friend from Surabaya, how are you? Oh long time I didn’t come here and missed many comments on my blogs. I am so sorry for that. Thanks to agree with my thoughts. It is true that we should learn from all occurrences around us not only on us. Better if we learn from others rather than from ourselves experiences, right? LOL
I try to write the other blogs based on my daily experiences and share it with all my friends here.
Thank you for the encouragement words that you always do.
Hi Sir Dara,
Nice try to write in Bahasa, I value it Sir.
I got the point that you wanted to say that gratitude with what we have is important. By the way, what did you mean about the "right one"? your wife or the lovely family or both that you have right now? ^_^
Thanks for reading and leaving a comment in my modest blog.
Hi Evangelina,
As usual your words always encourage us, I appreciate it highly my dear friend.
Your second paragraph, I pondered for awhile and the thoughts came in my mind then. When you said that when they are not meant to be, it is because one have to walk another path, maybe something more beneficial and learning fully” Is it the same with everything happens for reason?
Honestly, I often miss this website. I cannot deny that this website influences me much in English learning. I know learning of English is endless time, and I know my weaknesses on it. These reasons make me missing MyEC and want to come here when I have free time to write or read some blogs.
About your suggestion, I will come Eva whenever I miss and need to learn more, not only English actually. I thank you for commenting on my blogs with valued thoughts.
Hi Mishaikh,
Hope and fear ya…you know oftentimes fear is often conquering us rather than hope. So many people outside die because hopeless. I hope we are not one of them. For the positive people they always can seek the goodness from the bad experiences that they often encounter in their live.
With your wise words I completely agree with you Mishaikh. Sorry be late to reply your comment. I thank you for dropping by here.
Dear Icha,
I agree with you. Everything happens for a reason. We should learn from what had happened. Every opportunity is precious to us. Let's do our best and take a good shot!
Glad to see you writing, dear Icha. ^_^
Hi Roman,
Thank you so much for your nice word and having read my blog. Wish you a wonderful weekend.
Hi Rose,
Yes I do agree that we should not blame anyone or anything especially Allah as our Creator. What He gave to us is the best way. He always gives us what we need not we want. So, the things that we label with negative ones could make us to learn from those and can be a better person as well.
Interesting to describe that acceptance is key of happiness. It underlines the quote “Everything happens for a reason” . Completely agree, this attitude form us to be grateful when are down and humble when on the top.
Your last words are thoughtful, I believe you are a lovely person Rose. Thanks for dropping by and leaving comment here. Have a lovely weekend. Hugs
Perkyalah padaku, saya banyak menchubanya tetapi... I tried many shots but till now, I am not lucky enough to have the right one. Thanks Icha for sharing.
Icha,
What a thoughtful but also at the same time encouraging writing.
I do believe in the phrase “Everything happens for a reason”, sometimes things are meant to be and other times not, and when they are not meant to be, it is because one have to walk another path, maybe something more beneficial and learning fully.
About happiness, I do believe those who are close to us, has an influence on the amount of our happiness, because it works as something complimentary.
Good to see you here Icha, and a post from you after long time :)
If one is able to keep balance in 'hope and fear'. Hope for the good and fear of committing sin/disobedience/arrogance................ he/she is successful.
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