I am so appreciated that my parents gave me the chance to come to the world, though what the gift god gave me just like most of you.
When I was fifteen years old, I realized that I NEED TO FIGHT FOR MY FUTURE, because what my parents offered to me were, like the vast mojarity of people, just a healthy body and a well brain, plus a relatively comfortable place for me to grow up, but I never complain about that. From then on, I was aware that if I wanted to go to a better school, and led a higher level of life, I must be excellent.
Since then, I imitated the "successful students" who had went to my dreaming school and I followed their pace so that I could own the successful outcomes just like them. I did become an so-called good student in scores after that, which made me, under my consciousness, think that if I wanted to succeed I should live like the "successful person". With time going by, one day when I sat down alone and reconsidered what I had got in my life, I found that my so-called fighting life was almost empty except going for the other ones' life. Though I went to a not bad university, I still felt I am averay and nothing special in my life.
I was so glad that I met a teacher in my optional course of information colleting. "If you lead a life like everybody and don't know how to cultivate yourself, you will always be everybody," he said in a class. All of a sudden, I knew I had been moving into a wrong direction, I just did what others had done and tried my best to become the one who I thought was successful.
I collected the past mode of my life, I began to consider what I was interseted and what kind of life I wanted to have.Now, though depressed sometimes, I am going for my life with glory because I am deeply aware that I am creating a special life in this colorful world. The interest of life is to design, plan and manage it, and add something special to it. There is no need to be an anyone, in a other word, live the way you are eager to have and most importantly, you are the leader of your life.
Thanks for reading.
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I am so moved to read all your comments,I will remenber your kindness and sincere guidiance. Thanks!!!Remenber to be the true self and help more people surrounding us;the one of best gifts god have given to us is to relish various lifestyles of others, which actually constitute part of our lives, so we have the obligation to requit others with a excellent life of ourselves. Thanks.
Thanks for the useful topic. True! We as individuals differ from one another, and this is so good a gift that God has given us. We are created differently. The differences in the world inspire us to move forward. You know, we all want to be the best of all. We all want to have all the best in life. We compare ourselves with other people, and this can make us move forward. This is good. But as you said, we should live our own life. We must not try to be someone else, just because, in our mind, they are successful. It's good to consider their good points, and try to add it to our life. But to try to be someone else is not applicable, since we are different. Our conditions, goals, family, moods, and so on differ. We should act according to what we want in our life. To me, we should act as our Creator has created us for. Someone is created to be a great teacher, another is there to help patients with their problems, another for something else. But, there are some common points that we all have. We have to live a nice life as God loves, since He is the one who knows what's the best for us, the ones who are created by Him.
Good Luck.
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