Dear Friends,
When i was between you for the first time ,EC was full of members unknown to me but sooner and later i became a part of this chat room " some wished me welcome" some laughed at me making my jokes for one more indian stepped in .....yeaa But it didn't bothered me slowly and gradually you all accepted me to be part of fun ,information ,topics , competitions and much more ........ i was and i am very happy .
But ,
Sometimes you know we don't take new members seriously ,we always take as fun whether it suits to him/her or not " you know why i created this blog ".
yeaa i am one amongst the members who was became part of joke played on one the members of EC .new enviornment and this room gave the new commer bad impression and assumptions that this club is similar to ones we know have psycho's all over .
So , thereby comming to the main Point ,I request all the present members to be polite and good to new commers .
and specially whos'soever is " Yazid " ....he already suffered most members as i know from your stories in the past .......don't make him the part of the chat and without any proofs taking and considering other /new members as Yazid is not less than a joke. if he/she is acting funny and if trying to present any stupid action or psycho acts and all that ,we can simply ignore them or complain to our mods and admins.
some of our acts create bad impression to new members and they leave EC ,overall we are the culperate and who are we to blame and give different names to other other than the member itself .
Yeaa i also made mistakes ,you people also did,But remembering from the mistakes and taking into consideration not to do again can can make us more smart and we all know we are here for learning .we need quality members :) to improve EC and our character is also shown by the actions we take over here .
Thereby asking to look at this issue . I pen down my blog now and if i hurted someone " i am sorry for that "
I felt the importance of this blog and i published it "Hope you agree and like the blog "
Thanks for reading my blog " your replies and like are precious for me " . :) Take care
OATH
" WE WILL NOT MISBEHAVE OR SHOW ANY KIND OF RUDE BEHAVIOUR TOWARDS NEW MEMBERS WITHOUT KNOWING THE CAUSE ".
Thankyou !
Comments
Looks like someone is begging for sympathy....
Bad & Good people exist everywhere, you're trying to teach here. I believe the users who misbehave, they know the difference between right & wrong very well. It's just like they've chosen the wrong path.
No one can bring a change into their lives with their lectures unless they decide to leave the wrong path.
My words are bitter but true, you can teach a child about good manners but can't teach an adult or teenager about manners.
If you think you're right and can change them, then try it in reality. You're scared that they'll hurt you.
Can you go to a bad guy who is holding a gun in his hand, and can you say to him that he's doing a wrong thing?
In short didn't like your idea, I know many people will praise your blog and will criticize my comment
I also experienced that Akash, but Of course that time I'm new and still observing the room and by time goes by I'm more familiar whats going on there. I think we have our own attitude and character so me must be polite to those we dont know and especially the Newbies to have a nice impressions in the room. and be careful what words u are throwing if u don't know the person, because I saw also some fighting and misunderstanding of some members.
I agree in what you said akash
I hope i wasn't one of who annoyed when you joined EC :)
best of luck bro ...
hold on .. i forgot something ..:/
akash, you promised me to study instead of me :p
It's sad when members in EC seemed really caught up in this vicious and disturbing circle of talking about trolls either in blog(s) or chat room. And then without realising it, whether intentionally or unintentionally, dragged new members into the situation and making some members, be it new or old, uncomfortable. This may result in making some unfortunate member(s) with similar ids to be targeted, maybe, unreasonably and unfairly.
Are we giving the troll(s) the attentions that they had wanted by talking about them in the blog and chat room? Is it not that we also unfortunately creating the vicious circle of trolls by talking about them?