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     My dear Noas, she written a blog : life lesson from a joke. Hahaha…so here is my story and I’m sure, it happened in my marriage, I don’t copy it from anyone.

     Marriage – the word with so many levels. With this one, it is love , that one is responsibility, another one is obligation. As for me, it combines all. However, life with so many things to do will make you exhausted. Then I find out a way to  roll back the tiredness. It’s : give more fun in your life/marriage . So my blog is just for fun. Now look at these lessons which I learn from my marriage.

     We married around 15 years. Till now, we treat each other like a friend (not like a lover) so I (also He) always forgot the wedding day. Of course, we remembered it but we didn’t celebrate it. A few months ago, we celebrated it again. I asked him to buy something for me. My God..do you know what his answer was…”honey, when a fisher man catches a fish, do you ever see that he opens a fish’s mouth and puts more a bait in it”..lol…his meaning is easily understood but with my level, I’m afraid of you still not get it. Is it right? The mean is : when we caught a fish, we don’t need to give more bait.  Now, he caught me (he thinks I’m a fish….hahaha..OK, fish but I prefer to be a shark..lol)..and he doesn’t need to win my heart again. Hic ..What a smart idea ! hahaha….

     So after so many years, I got some lessons for my life.

1. Don’t expect a gift on your special day..Maybe some of you will do not agree with my thinking. Here, I’m talking about my marriage so as my situation, how can he buy something for me if I keep all his money hahaha….
2. Don’t ask him to do your house work, just like me, I give him a choice : clean my house or help my little baby to drink milk (remember now she is just 11 months and have to drink mother’s milk lol..lol..lol…)
3. Don’t talk too much…I don’t know why but most of wife become a “talkative” person. I myself can talk all night (see, night not day hehehe). But sometimes, I stop speaking and that time, he was very worried. He asked about my health. But, the secret is : I stop it because of I feel sleepy kakaka…
4. Don’t worry about your weight. It’s serious. He loves your kids and he needs to remembers who bore them. So let’s relax, eat anything you like and enjoy what you are.
5. Don’t hear his talking just look at his actions. Yes, we don’t need to hear about his loving . We need him to prove it. Same as me ,hahaha…when he says : honey, I love you. I will say back : “wow, you love me, could I buy another diamond’s ring darling?”. See, I think I’m smarter than him hahaha…(this sentence I shouldn’t shout at in public, just whisper ^_^)

I have some more experiences. But I don’t want you to fall in sleep when you read my blog. So I stop here. See you on my next crazy blog :)