Does marriage is most significant thing in our life? The answer would be yes;but it is not only thing which is essential to live our life. As a human being, we have to accomplishe our basic needs, but marriage does not include with it. Being a part of a developing country,we have been learnt a thing by born that is importance of marriage. When we are frustrated or when we are facing problems, only a thing come up with our mind that is marriage or having a partner. Most father in out country bring up their daughter thinking that.
Is marriage that much helpful to get over our frustration? I think the answer is "no". The Actual picture after marriage is; most of married couple have been falling out each other every time. They have been tortured mentally and some of them physically. A woman, it does not matter which position and profession she belongs to, always be dominated by her husband. I have seen it from my childhood. So tie the knot is not only solution.
Actually, we need a shoulder to cry when we get frustrated, when we need support. We want to share everything with him/her. Every time we do not have it as we are all busy. Thatswhy, we want a person to be granted, Who gives us comfort and makes us smile when we go through a rough patch. I think, this is called "love", which we are lookink for. As We all know love is divine.
Marriage is a crucial part to balance a healthy and moral society,There is no two way about it; but without love it puts us over the adge. If love comes a married couple, the couple must be happiest couple in this world.
Certainly, it is my own thought So if you think diffrently you can share it with me.
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Hi,Hoanglien
Thanks for sharing your opinion and the advice.Certainly,i will marry ,if i find the right man whom i love.
Whatever people think and opine, marriage is balancing of life. What happens otherwise is the self-responsibility, not of the responsibility of 'marriage'. Give and take, or sacrifice, you will get satisfaction, otherwise NO.
Hello, MA Chy
I am really glad to know your thinking about marriage and i completely agree with you that without marriage we also have to face lots of problem. To success a relationship we have to sacrifice but it should not be one sided. Both we are have to do it in order to make ourself happy.
Dear moonlight,
Marriage is not responsible for mental or physical torture. Without marriage also a lot of problem can create with unregistered couple. A successful relation is a part of sacrifice, understanding, love etc. If we want to be happy first of all we have to make happy our partner.
Thanks for sharing your feelings !
You are welcome Risty Aven. Yes!LOVE is more important than MARRIAGE.But our society does not agree with it. I don't know why!
If there's a force and lacks willingness~~~~ crap it! No way!
Hello, moonlight! For the question, if marriage is the most significant thing in our life, my answer is NO. I don't think so, what if a person decides not to marry, she/he misses the chance to have his/her significant thing? If so, this could be a limited life, confined only to that.
Although, I can say that marriage is one of the happiest especially if you're marrying the one you love, not the one they choose for you to be with.
Absolutely, marriage is not a solution to get over any frustration...on the other hand, you might get the situation worse...:D..you'll be ended up banging your head against the wall.:D
Well, the family is the basic component/part of a society~~sociology says so.
Thanks for sharing your thought with us. :)
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