What is the main difference between humans and animals? My opinion is humans have good manners and animals don't have it. Politeness is a very important part of one's behavior. A person's manners give us an idea of his education, family background and his cultures.
It's not only important to show manners in our real lives, but also in virtual lives. Some people tend to forget their manners while chatting. They forget that they are chatting with real people. They ask questions directly about age, gender, current relationship status or any other personal matters. But they should keep it in their mind that those they are chatting with are real people. Will you ever ask those questions to anyone directly in your real life? I guess 'no' is the answer. Then why in chatting?
Good manners make others feel comfortable. So when we are here to improve our English or to make friends, it will be prudent for us to show good manners. And thus EC will be a better place to learn English together and also a place for friendship.
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@GREEN: Agreed GREEN. Parents and teachers bear the most responsibility to teach manners to the kids. But we can't also deny our responsibility in teaching then good manners. Cause children learn from the surroundings.
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A good teacher can teach good manners indeed. A teacher can shape his/her students and society.
@prem: You asked the question that how to judge a person who hides his personality under the mask of manners and you also answered it. So we don't need to worry about judging, cause God is there to take care of it.
But I believe that a person can't hide his personality for too long. If s/he fakes her/his good manner, then s/he will not be able to continue it for long. His/her real-self will come out soon. Thanks for reading and commenting on my blog :)
@Reeyaz: Bro, I could not agree more with your words... :)
@Nishan.5: I only compared those humans to the animals who have the biological structure of a human but the mentality of an animal or lower than that. They should not be named as a human. Thanks for reading and commenting on my blog :)
hello dear frd....humans have millions of nerve cells but,the animals they have not or very less...pls dnt compare with animals.remain..some kind of the humans r like animals we can see everywhere.they have millions of nerve cells but their behavior showing they have not.what we can do?
How much we join here with fake names and fake profiles, every time we log in with these fakes. the real inner you and your intentions take over you, and just shows who the real you are covered inside the veil of social disguise.It doesn't matter what introduction question you ask,it is the choice who you want to be a friend or dumb shit pervert.We all who join here are make your choices and decision precisely.
Hi Nalisekhar! Thanks for liking my blog and leaving a comment. Don't worry about the mistakes now. Cause when we make a mistake without knowing, it's not considered as a mistake. Your comment proved that you know your manners very well :)
Thank you so much Rosalind for your wise comment and for sharing about your experience in EC. Yes, in real life we can get an idea about who we are talking with. But here in EC it's only possible to know what someone shares about him/her. But still I think it's not decent to continue questioning someone about what s/he does not want to share. Moreover we are here to learn and practise English. So I think the personal details should not be our concern. Though if we continue talking with someone for a while, a friendship can be built up. And after building up a friendship, we tend to talk more about ourselves.
My answer to your question is "No" , but in real life it can be easy for us to know how old the people we are talking to , even we can guess their educational level or culture background from the way they talk..But I totally agree with you that to ask others about their gender , age , marital status especially when it is the first time to talk to them..I suffered from that point when I was new here..But , now , I know well how to behave with such people...
Thank you so much for your kind words afro! It's so nice of you to read my blog and leave such an encouraging comment for me :)
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