Love, what is the secret that lies behind that word? I always try to avoid talking or even mentioning it. Of course, the subject needs more than a blog to write about. Naturally, we have to include the general concept of the word. It is a feeling of liking someone or something very much. They say that love is a feeling of deep regard, devotion, and fondness. A strong feeling of affection, attraction, and eagerness, you name it, a strong desire to be with someone, and share feelings. I tried it two or three times quite a few years back, and I was hit in the tank, as they say. The experience was very hard for me. The question, why was it so important or necessary for us? Can we live without it? Here, I am speaking generally about love. The love of money, my mother and my work, etc.
The answer is very simple. We need it badly. Most crimes in the world happened because of it. Many sacrifices were done because of it. No need to mention the man who killed another man because he took his love from him, or the young man who committed suicide because his girl married another one. The list is very long. Again, the question, why is it so necessary for us? Of course, we cannot use hate as a substitute, can we?
Some people say that the love of the country is from the love of the woman. I wonder if that supposition is true or no! We have heard about one of the kings of France who gave up the throne for the woman he loved. The first time I fell in love, I tried to resist it. I used to swim against the stream but it was indeed very painful and difficult. The current was very strong. I was weak. The second time, I convinced myself that I had to surrender. I need you guys to write about love. Someone will definitely come out with the big article. It's a challenge, let's do it.
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Khaili mamnoon dost khobam Maryam Rad! Pure love, I remember that during the days of Romeo and Juliet, Farhad and Shirin, Gais and Laila and some others who appreciate the meaning of love. The love of Allah is the main. As you have mentioned, it can be felt only by the heart. Nice short essay!
As you told Love comes from a strong feeling. Unfortunately mankind hasn't been able to understand the meaning of Love . We have been created by a pure Love. So if we could understand it we would be saved. You know these Loves that you noticed in your blog all are in low level of love and they are some ways to achieve the pure Love. We can't define Love because it comes from Allah . We should understand it with our heart. Every Love isn't a pure Love. Mankind calls them Love . We should try to find the main pure Love then we will be in peace and quiet. I hope one they mankind achieve it.
Fielen dank Rose! I really that nice article about love. You have stated and given a good description for that confusing feeling. You talked about the family as the base. Without love, our kids will struggle as you stated there. Thank you for your nice article. Rose, can I be one of your friends?
Many people use the word love only as a phrase, it doesn't mean so much to them. But if we speak about real love, then we have to make a difference between different kinds of love. Love is varied. I don't want to write about all of it. But for example, there is the love between family members. The love of parents to their kids is the base how and who a child will be in the future. Kids which grow up without the love of parents will always struggle to bear their life. Missed love isn't to replace... it's missed for ever.
And there is the love between man and woman.
Giving and taking love comes from our bottom of our hearts and deep from our soul. Love doesn't ask for reasons and love is unconditionally. We can't learn and we can't avoid to love. We can hide our love, we can deny love, we can fight against our feelings of love ... but we will be the loser ... love will always remain and win... even if we don't believe in. People which do not received love, will always seeking for and they will always have the longing for love. And if we gave love, then we get back love.
Everything what we reach in life... as there are possesions, material wealth, titles and reputation in society ... it will be lost when we pass away at the end of our life. Only our love will remain and lives in the hearts of the bereaved. We can't take anything with us on our last journey....love is the only thing we take with us and what we leave back at the same time.
Khaili mamnoon dost khobam Saba! wala how did Farhad dug that mountain or was it a tunnel? Thanks my lady for your nice comment.
Some people say love means digging mountain with hands like the love story of Farhad and Shirin.
Anu ang ginagawa mo, Liz? Maraming salamat liz para koment mo. I hope to be one of your friends, could I? Thanks for your comment on that blog.
Wow..well done. I really like how you define love in many ways. Especially "Most crimes of the world happened because of it." I must agree! :) I'm looking forward to your next blog. :) Two Thumbs UP!!
Koy baat nahi Romance. Meri Urdu acha nahi hain. I hope you correct me from time to time to improve my broken language. Thanks for your meaningful comment on that blog.