I've thought much about my future and I'm worried quite a lot about it. I found I'm not mature enough when taking action in my job. Sometimes, I am too naive. These days I was bothered by them. I don't know how I should do to make others satisfied.
Everybody has opinion....Opinions are just scattered everywhere like a cheap commodity...so don't make your actions/feelings affected by these cheap opinions..You have your own brain...Do your own thinking for yourself so they would know you are somebody not nobody!...Just remember it is impossible to please everybody...Just be your own self...and if you make mistake just try harder next time to improve it...You will know as you go along the way, it's not really matter the opinion of others but how you take actions with your careful judgment...because in the end of the day it is you who will be the responsible for your actions and not those people who gave their opinion....
Yes-When you love someone, you never really let go but there is heathy not letting go and unhealthy. Mourn- let yourself mourn. Mourning takes time- don't rush it. By time- I mean time. Don't expect a week or month. It varies by person and their approach. At the begining it all feels hopeless, don't give in to that feeling, no matter how long it may last. If you hit a point where you do not think you can face that hopelessness talk with someone. In fact, before you hit that point talk to someone. Take time for yourself and memories but countinue to live- be around people. Remember, the one who loves you does not want you to be miserable. They want to live in the heart of your memories but they can only do that if you are living. Go ahead and cry, Go ahead and yell at the unfairness of it all. Go ahead and let it out. Go out though, despite it all. Sometimes you simply have to push through the worst of it. Sometimes you need to remind yourself over and over that it all gets better eventually. I lost someone very dear to me 16 years ago and there are still days that I can't help wishing he was here. But he would want me here and I would not want to disappoint him. I lost someone dear to me within the last six months. Due to being prone to bipolar depression, it was a great catylist to falling to pieces. I had to walk away from a good job becouse the stress and the mourning was killing me. I am regaining myself, stepping back out in the job market. But I hurt, and I miss, and I hate the people who tell me I will replace the loved one in time. You never replace. But you can move on and make room for others. Love. Mourn. Cry. Remember. Wade through the misery. Come out on the other side. GIVE IT TIME. TALK.
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Yes-When you love someone, you never really let go but there is heathy not letting go and unhealthy. Mourn- let yourself mourn. Mourning takes time- don't rush it. By time- I mean time. Don't expect a week or month. It varies by person and their approach. At the begining it all feels hopeless, don't give in to that feeling, no matter how long it may last. If you hit a point where you do not think you can face that hopelessness talk with someone. In fact, before you hit that point talk to someone. Take time for yourself and memories but countinue to live- be around people. Remember, the one who loves you does not want you to be miserable. They want to live in the heart of your memories but they can only do that if you are living. Go ahead and cry, Go ahead and yell at the unfairness of it all. Go ahead and let it out. Go out though, despite it all. Sometimes you simply have to push through the worst of it. Sometimes you need to remind yourself over and over that it all gets better eventually. I lost someone very dear to me 16 years ago and there are still days that I can't help wishing he was here. But he would want me here and I would not want to disappoint him. I lost someone dear to me within the last six months. Due to being prone to bipolar depression, it was a great catylist to falling to pieces. I had to walk away from a good job becouse the stress and the mourning was killing me. I am regaining myself, stepping back out in the job market. But I hurt, and I miss, and I hate the people who tell me I will replace the loved one in time. You never replace. But you can move on and make room for others. Love. Mourn. Cry. Remember. Wade through the misery. Come out on the other side. GIVE IT TIME. TALK.