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Love thy self

 Why you must love yourself before you demand others to love you.

Love has different meaning to different person, For Mother Love means to take care of her kids, For Father to Protect their kids, For Siblings to Tease each others, As there are relation so as love change the meaning, u can try to express love by many means some by foods, some by appreciation, some by physically, some by sharing, each way we try to see the nurture the relation with others, in this whole scenario we forget most about us, we never think this way, ever you wonder how we love our self,

It is like knowing your own feeling your yourself, once you know how u feel about yourself , you got to know how wonderful you inside and this will reflect on your relation with others around us,

Don’t stuck in the past event, what happen to you, there are things about your past that you just don't want to celebrate. However, taking everything in a positive stride and tell yourself that everything that happened to me in the past made me the person I am today so I need to embrace and celebrate that past because, without it, I wouldn't be me,

Try to Indulged in the things that make you happy, that inspire you, that send little shivers of delight down your spine, that bring peace, yes, doing so will help recognize the uniqueness that is you and will help you to identify the things you can focus on,

It is ok if you make mistake in the past, but that is the way we learn, that’s is how it take to do correct things, we learn by our past mistake, so never stuck in your past, just flow like it there is more ahead to achieve then you lost in the past, it doesn’t matter who you are, what you did in the past, what you do for a living, try to accept those error and make amendments in them,

If you focus on the past, you do just not love yourself, in the moment. Love yourself by being present, live in the present because to live in the moment is to accept yourself the way you are, even if you are flawed. Who isn't flawed these days? 

Well appreciating oneself is a tough bet but whatever you are, your life and whatever you have in your life is one of the very best ways to cherish and remember that you're lucky to be yourself.