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I want to tell you my story , but don’t worry I am not going to bore you with any uninteresting details about my daily routines or broken heart or unlucky marriage or anything else like that.

I’m a thirty-four-year old woman (oh my God already over thirty!!!!), who has two angels and I’m immensely proud of them., but the story is not about them, its about  how a person can change herself or get changed with years.

 I’ve changed a lot . Why and how? You’ll see if you still keep on reading this blog.;)

I’ve grown-up in a small family of four , but both my parents came from larger families . I do remember and will never forget the time having spent a lot of occasions with my aunts and uncles. The environment has always been happy one, or has seemed so to me.

 As a teenager and a student I became gloomy, pessimistic and self-centered just the right reflection of the time (when the former Soviet Union countries didn’t know what to do with their hard-gained independence, facing with a lot of predictable and unpredictable problems.)

Then after having graduated the University I made my first steps in my teaching  career.

I got married.

skipping some ten years , which gave me  more experience of life than all the books I have read from Russian and Armenian literature , including even the foreign ones, ( I don’t want to go into unnecessary details) I caught myself having changed a lot.I’ve grown to be optimistic. Through a lot of pain and suffering and happy moments , and then through having lost my beloved people , relatives, I obtained quite a different outlook of life.

You may think that I should  have become more pessimistic than ever? No! I learned my lessons.My mother and my angels instilled an optimistic outlook in me too.

Optimism is a gift and Happiness is a habit –cultivate it! No matter how horrible a situation someone may be in, such as losing a family member, or needing financial support to get pulled out of a rut , we should find a solution or we should create a very positive outlook in the end to make it a happy end …..

Maybe I cannot transform every situation into a good one , I cannot change everything around me  according to my needs  but I want to raise my kids in a positive environment, and I want to tell them (and maybe I’m telling all this to myself too) that they can change some certain things around themselves if they only think positive .

My two friends in EC helped me a lot too, when feeling alone or tired and exhausted from my work or from the housework  I come online and grab any chance to talk to them and smile and make them smile , I wanna look ‘’on the bright side ‘’ of things .

With this blog I wanted to show you how a person can change herself and the things around her and I want to be such a person for whom life is really so precious.