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No no don't worry I'm not going to pull out your teeth. I know, that sound awful.  Yesterday, accidentally I saw a horrible article on the internet (Daily mail) about the female dentists who pulled out all her ex-boyfriend’s teeth (he dumped her for another woman). When he came at her surgery with toothache just days after breaking up with her, she gave him a heavy dose of anaesthetic and plucked his teeth out. Now that dentist is facing jail. After that incident, unfortunately his new girl friend leaves him because of his empty mouth. That is a true story (Maybe you know about that story), and I'm feeling sorry about all of them. Do you think that girls really loved him?

Love

What is true love? How can we recognize true love? I think, these are the most difficult questions ever.  If you can give certain answers for these questions, you would win the Nobel Prize for that. :) However, you can recognize that you have a true love or not from some incidents like this.  Example: in this story, his (the man who lost all his teeth) new girl friend left him because of his empty mouth. If she really loved him, she'll never leave him. It seems like she loved his teeth. True love can be recognized in your dreadful times in life .In good times and bad times; true beloved will be on your side for evermore.

 but if they want to leave...?

Let them go. Don't try to stop them and respect their decision. Don't withhold him or her by forcing. It's useless. If you really love him or her, think as his or her happiness is your everything but if she, or he cheated you, I know that's the worst thing ever. Don't get angry, pity for them. One day they will suffer about that because they never can't avoid from their conscience. If you can, say, "I'm gonna find someone someday who might actually treat me well, this is a big world" (I got if from one of Taylor Swift's songs, which called "White horse." :))

Let the time to heal your pain.  I don't say to forget them because it's really hard to do. When you listen to love songs or breakup songs, or, etc. you will remember him or her maybe your sweet (sometimes bad) memories. If you remember your memories, think soon, why did you break up and what's the reason for that? After you understand that, then you can heal your pain quickly but remember one thing, there are lots of good people in the world.

Cry and write.

Don't be afraid to cry and scream. I think it feels better after a good cry. Let tears melt your pain. Try to write everything about your thoughts, feelings on paper or on your diary. (If you have a doubt about privacy, you can use online diary.)

Revenge

Now I ask a question from you.  Have you ever wanted revenge on your ex? No it's not a better answer. On the other hand, it's not good for your health. If you do something wrong, you will suffer along. Living well with others because, life is short.

I believe, it's very hard to take a human soul, so respect each other.  Don't cheat on each other. Give valuable meaning for this word "Love”.  If that female dentist could understand about real meaning of love, her ex-boy friend didn't face such a bad incident.

(These are my own thoughts. Unfortunately, or fortunately, still I haven't my own experiences about love lol so if I said something wrong about love or break ups, I'm sorry, but I based other's experiences to write this.)

Thank you very much for reading my blog post and this song for you :)  Hope you have a lovely day ! XOXO

	LeAnn Womack - Some Say Love .mp3
	Found at bee mp3 search engine