If you have special feeling with someone and if your feeling is strong enough, tell her.(I'm not sure that girl should tell him or not).It was my second year at university. I received messages from a stranger. I replied and asked who he/she is. He told me that he knew me and he was "a person without surname".We kept sending messages day by day and became closer.The day we met at last came. I remember that I went with my sister and he went with his friend. We had a joyful day.His hometown is near my grandparent’s place. So in summer, we went there in the same coach. I stopped first. His place was about 45 kilometers far.My relatives and I had a trip to visit the huge lake (called "Sea Lake") in his place. We stopped by his house too.He visited my grandparent’s house 1 or 2 times too.That time I received his messages almost everyday. We had written for a long time. BUT I wondered why he also sent my sister messages. ("?")... ...One day I decided not to receive/reply any message for a week. I asked my friends not to send me message.I needed time to think.Then I posted a blog on my page. I wrote that I didn't know why my friend sent me messages everyday.... I had a wonder. I wrote I thought and had my own reason: We were FRIEND! I was happy to have him as my friend, and he did too.It was public so my FRIEND (:D) could read. He sent me a message right away kind of "How about you?” But I was taking a break that week so I didn't reply him immediately...Later there was no special event happened. For me, I decided he was my friend.Sometimes we still sent messages but not too often.After graduation, I worked and dated with ok a special friend then became my ex boyfriend. We still kept in touch, we met sometimes.I remember one day I saw his writing in his online blog. He had special feeling with a girl. But he didn't want to destroy his friendship do he didn't say and got stress.I didn't understand what happened. I just commented: "what happened. It is very simple, just tell her."When my ex boyfriend studied abroad, we (my ex bf and I) got some trouble. We were nearly saying good bye. He invited me to go out with him. Sometimes I agreed and sometimes not.(This part should be: when he saw my writing in my page about my sadness, he knew we (my ex bf and I) broke up, he invited me to go out with him).That time I had quite special feeling with him too, closer than friends. He had no action.I got married. On last New Year occasion, I sent him message because I heard that he had changed his job.Then we went out to take some coffee. It was pleasure to know how your friend was going on. I asked him did he intend to marry someone. He said in the past he had asked me but I had refused. Then I answered because he hadn't asked. For me I would have married the person who had asked me.(I'm not sure of the tense I used here).And yes, now I am still not sure about his feeling with me. I hope will be invited to his wedding party soon.(Hey, do you want to hear some music? I have already read the lyric (script). It is not suitable with my post. But it is ok, hope you enjoy the song: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=7wQzmIK-GfU )
Dear Behrad: It is never late to command :). I think my friend 's thought is similar to some of you. That time he lived far my house (about 20km). It was not easy to meet.
At our last meet I told him if he liked someone, he should have been more active. For me as a girl, I had posted my blog and told about my feeling. So I didn't feel regret. Man should know exactly his feeling and must be brave enough to tell. If not how girl can believe in him or his felling.
Anyway, my friend is gentle, careful, and is a good guy. Anyone marries him will be happy. Hope he will find his true lover soon.
Maybe it's too late to comment but... I enjoyed... but sometimes we have so much to say but s/he is so far away... also sometimes we don't know what must we say... sometimes I think with myself: why can't you just feel that way I do? ( could it be another change by samples )
sometimes I ask myself: why do nice people choose wrong people to date? then I remember we choose the love that we think we deserve it...
Anyway... thanks for your nice blog... I also enjoyed the music and I think it was suitable for your post, especially this part: What do you want from me?...
My husband told me about his old special friends too. It is good that husband and wife can tell each other some of their old felling or memories. And I think we need some friends or situations in the past to teach us how to behave in our life. Thank you Estanis for reading!
Yes, sometimes I think to myself what way my life could have taken if I had decided others options in the past. Once I saw an old friend in the street and I told to my wife: 'hey, you know she could be my wife now?' :D
I mean We (my wife and I) speak openly about our past since the important thing is to live in harmony with your partner.
Thanks for your sharing a chapter of your life :)
To MaYa: hi girl, I'm happy that we understand each other more clearly. And I'm happy that you tell me more about what you mean. I wish you a bright happy day friend!
Hi again Ann! I think you misunderstood what I have said, I'm talking about in general for people who have the same situation. Maybe I should have use "we" not "you", sorry my mistake. I do apologize for that. Btw, in addition to that, yes you're right, we should be more cautious and be smart enough to handle such situation. And I see that you really love your partner, and I'm happy for you. I do know the feeling of having someone you truly love, its so magical. Thanks for your reply girl! Have a nice day? :)o
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At our last meet I told him if he liked someone, he should have been more active. For me as a girl, I had posted my blog and told about my feeling. So I didn't feel regret. Man should know exactly his feeling and must be brave enough to tell. If not how girl can believe in him or his felling.
Anyway, my friend is gentle, careful, and is a good guy. Anyone marries him will be happy. Hope he will find his true lover soon.
Maybe it's too late to comment but... I enjoyed... but sometimes we have so much to say but s/he is so far away... also sometimes we don't know what must we say... sometimes I think with myself: why can't you just feel that way I do? ( could it be another change by samples )
sometimes I ask myself: why do nice people choose wrong people to date? then I remember we choose the love that we think we deserve it...
Anyway... thanks for your nice blog... I also enjoyed the music and I think it was suitable for your post, especially this part: What do you want from me?...
I mean We (my wife and I) speak openly about our past since the important thing is to live in harmony with your partner.
Thanks for your sharing a chapter of your life :)
dear ann..
sometimes it's not as easy as it seems...
nice sharing..
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