Words can be as sharp as the blade of a razor.
They can hurt us, and some of them cut durable wounds in our soul. Words can hurt the same as physical violence.
It hurts that more if someone hurts us we trusted.
The fading or even healing of that kind of wounds takes a lot of time.
Each wound leaves a scar that remains forever.
We can not feel them by touching like wounds on the skin.
Wounds of our skin fade with the time and the most of them will also disappear completely.
Not so the scars in our soul. Always, if a similar situations come up again, they ask us to be careful, not to trust too early, not so quick to believe in flattering words. We stay alert and alarmed. It keeps us suspiciously, and that isn't good for relation-or friendships.
We should be aware of the might of our words. The same as we can be hurt, we can hurt others the same way.
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Thanks, HAOUAT BRAHIM
well said
I thank you very much for your comment on my blog, dear Warda.
As far as possible and as far as it's still time for apologies, we should use the opportunity.
The time runs, and we don't know what may happen. Our life isn't endless.
Sometimes, if people decide to apologize, it's just too late, they missed the chance. Then they must live with.
Everyone makes mistakes but as so as we accept it for ourselves, we must it allow it to others as well.
If we learn from wrongdoing, we develop or perfect empathy.
Hello dear Rose, I really love reading your blogs. I can feel the warmth of your beautiful soul and heart in them.
When I read the title of the blog, my memory takes me to the two most painful things that have been said to/about me by the people that I trusted and my eyes watered. I now Try to think before I say anything, I remember hurting so many people with my sharp words and my heart goes out to them. :( I wish if I could see them and apologize.
The thing about hurtful words are that You can forgive but never forget.
Thanks for such a beautiful blog, Beautiful Rose.
Yes, Zivi, words can be forgiven and time will heal all wounds.
I see you are as familiar with proverbs as I am, too.
Thanks again for your comment.
Rose: "Words they are spoken out, can't be taken back."
So true, Rose.
But they can be forgiven. And as the proverb goes: Time will heal all wounds
Hahaha. Dear Rose!
I am used to saying the truth. SOOORRRYYYY!!!! :P
Hi, FeCroc.
Thanks a lot for reading and commenting my blog.
I think everyone hurts sometimes others.
Even if it isn't our intention to hurt them, it just happens. Then we should apologize. That's the first and best we can do.
Hello Paula. Thanks so much for your comment. I am surprised and overpowered because your comment is as long as my whole post. (LOL!)
I do agree with everything that you mention. Of course, our tongue isn't a single-edged sword.
We speak in a good and bad manner.
Mostly, I try thinking before speaking, but it doesn't mean it works, always, and that I never hurt anyone.
We all are just humans. We can't calmly react, always. Words they are spoken out, can't be taken back.
Mishaikh, thanks for your valuable comment. I appreciate it very much how you understand the feelings of others.
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