When I say I do !
Is when we are committed !
When we are committed, should I think about you all the time ? Coz it means How much I love you ?
NOPE !
From now on, you shouldn’t think of HER , and you shouldn’t think of YOU as well. If you think only HER you’re forgotten and get burnt out. After a while, you don’t count. When you give, give, give, you get nothing back. It’s a horrible relationship. It won’t last.
Should you think abt yourself then ? ME ! ME ! ME ! A Big No No ! If you take, take, take, it won’t last either.
So how to make it last ?
It lasts when you don’t think of HER or YOURSELF, but think of US --> what’s between you. Most of the problems in relationships are never what’s in him or her, but in the way they relate together. It’s what’s in between that counts.
So, when u say I do, it means yes WE DO ! Let US make it work !
To all EC friends who are in a relationship or marriage life, how long does yours last ?
Comments
Anele,
Thanks for taking your time to comment on each of my blogs. Thanks for your encouragement too to keep blogging ! Hahahah, I love your jokes there, Anele ! thanks
Hi YUgi
Thanks for taking your valuable time to drop by my CRIB. Well said there Yugi, u seem to know how to make your r.sip last, I am very happy for ya.
Allow me to share something here, too..
Marriage is a wonderful institution... but who wants to live in an institution?-
And I have a great advice for you IF:
When the time comes your wife complains that you no longer take her to expensive places anymore, then take her to the GAS STATION, kekeke!
And please don't forget the 4 most important words for a successful marriage: "I'LL DO THE DISHES"
Keep blogging!
Lol Ohnie,
I also wana share of of my fav quotes :
Marriage is a WORKSHOP --> Husbands WORK and Wives SHOP
"Marriage is give and take. The husband gives and the wife takes."
(^,*)
Hi May, thanks for your comment !
Yep, very true ! think abt WE not ME.
Hi IAV, thanks for your wonderful comments.
When u build a house, someone behind u destroys it, then you build your house again. Yes ! u can ! its just a matter of willingness and persistency !
Congrats IAV if your relationship and marriage life lasts till it ends. Till deaths do us apart ! so sweet ! (^_^)
When you build a house, someone behind you destroys it. As a result, that house could never be finished.
The relationship and marriage life : It lasts until It ends.