All of us has their own taste in choosing a partner, a person who has all the traits that we are looking for as its our right to expect that we want to be with someone whom we dreamed of. Its not wrong to find a person whom we want to be on our side forever who will fulfill our dreams and fantasies and make it in real. So what are the common things that we like to have for a partner? Is it that this person should be handsome/beautiful, white/fair, intelligent, kind-hearted, caring, who knows how to deal with all the things, rich, and so on and so forth...
They say that we're very lucky if we found an exact person whom we want to have till the end. But the next question is...are you the perfect girl/guy he/she's been dreaming of? This will make these things more complicated. Sometimes he/she's the one that we're looking for but we can't make them feel complete and contented with our presence and the love that we can give, and these are the reasons that will hurt our feelings for sure. We can't do anything to make that person love us the way we wanted them to be. We can't force them to love us on the same intensity that we have for them, but the truth is we always expect something in return from the person we truly love. We have a very tiny posibility that we will get what we wanted so at the end we just get along with someone that is not the ideal partner that we're looking for just to make sure that he/she will make us feel loved and cared.
This is a clear illusion to find someone who's perfect for our taste as that person has his/her own way of thinking, different opinion and perspective. This is the time that LOVE will come in the scene. It will make all these lacking be complete for us to be happy and contented with the person we're in a relationship with. It's a matter of respecting one another's flaws and differences and embrace the negative side of your guy/girl. Thanks for reading!
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Never looking for one. Never thinking of one. LOL
@jess, are you singing the frozen soundtrack? lolz :P
LEt it go, let it go, Maya.
@sis luci, yeah you're right, they say that if you want to have a successful relationship you should be close to your partner like best friends, u dont have to hide anything from each other so even the love fades the friendship is still there to keep you intact. I think we have to make sure that you know your partner very well than other people, make sure that he/she knows everything about you even the smallest details of you. and maybe we should have to be honest to our partner, tell them what you feel..if you're getting annoyed or jealous of something, he/she should be the first one who come to know whats your problem or whats bothering you. if theres something on your mind or doubting you, dont hesitate to open up or else it will lead to misunderstanding between the two of you. open communication is the best thing to make any relationship work. thanks for the comment sis luci:D
@tulip, it is clear that we cant have all what we wanted..thanks for the comment:D
@sissy ratu, this is the process that we have to do to make the relationship work, or else it will end up to nothing...thanks for dropping by sissy...god bless!
Yes. It is a truth. In fact, we are difficult to find things which absolute perfection.
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