we all crave to be loved for our very own self not for money, beauty, prestige, fame and whatnot. We feel offended if others love us because of the wealth, fame or other factors. If a relationship is only based on one of these cases like wealth, beauty and etc, it will not last in the long run. For instance the moment there is no wealth, the relationship will be over.
The more you get to know a person, if there is no goodness in his or her heart the relationship cannot maintain. That’s why after a while all of the beauty and wealth that had stunned you in the first place, will lose their value in your eyes. This fact is almost true in every relationship be it marriage, friendship or even a business relation.
Unfortunately we have learned how to measure people’s value according to their wealth, beauty or according to which walks of life they come from; that’s why people face so many problems in their relationship. I have noticed that nowadays people even care about the brand of phone, clothes, car or the location of house and then they judge people so easily.
But I believe there is much to a person than eyes can meet. Humanity is something that you will find out about a person when you have the chance to know him or her and it is worth way more than everything else. That’s why we admire people who love us no matter if we are poor or rich, if we are pretty or not; this kind of relations will grow much deeper and stronger.
I hope we can put aside these kind of attitudes and not turning people into objects or better to say objectifying them and see their humanity rather than their accessories.
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Hi Setare. How are you? I hope you are doing great. I am here neither to judge about your writing, nor to put comment on it. I am here, because I have missed you. I seldom come to EC, but today I frequently checked the EC member list to catch you there and chat with you. However, I didn't meet you there.
You may say: Behnam, you should have written something about the post! Well, your writing is excellent, easy to understand and follow. I also agree with the points you have made. They are interesting. What you have said are some facts, although they are maybe bitter. I want you to write about the reasons. What have caused us to be like this? What are your suggestions for making things better?
Anyway, this is just to let you know, I value your friendship without having your wealth, your physical appearance, your physical beauties, your car, your mobile phone, etc. I appreciate your friendship because of your personality.
All the best,
Behnam, 6 May, 2016
I totally agree, Setareh
Dear AG, interesting point of view; so outer beauty is an entrance to inner beauty. Here i want to add one more point i do believe that an outer beauty without the inner beauty will fade away so soon while on the other hand inner beauty will add more beauty to outer part. Anyway I appreciate your compliment. Thanks for stopping by and leaving your nice comment.
Dear Vision, so i should have written loved and respected :) right? because we want to be loved by some and respected by almost all.:) thanks for your great vision.:)
Dear Amal. lets learn how to see the beauty in heart. Thanks for your nice comment.
It's not a strange for me to read such a topic written by Setareh....
Here they say, if the cup is full, it will overflow with its contents.. Some people are full of humanity "Just like you Setareh". Some other people are full of dirt and ugliness... So, every person will overflow with what they are filled of....
Well, I agree with the general concept of the blog with only one small addition...
I'd like just to add that our human psyches are made to be astonished and involved about Beauty... that's why we are trying to beautify ourselves for our beloved ones...
Beauty can make a connective entrance to the inside human psyche.. But, what Beauty can make, if inside of the human psyche is ugly.. simply, it can make and do nothing... That's why I prefer to call it an "ENTRANCE"..
Sometimes, you quit entering a beautiful psyche, because of the lack of the entrance.. it's not supposed to be, I agree... but this is firmed and fixed by our human natures.. I agree that the most important and the most vital must be the beauty of the inside.. without the beauty of the inside, a relationship can never survive or continue.. But existing of an entrance is sometimes important to connect us to the interior...
Please accept my full respect and admiration...
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Dear Shiba, thank you for stopping by and leaving your precious comment.:)
Dear Erza, I appreciate your nice comment. I hope we can inspire each other and those who have the ability give helping hands to others in order to have the better world.
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