Human relationship is one of the complicated matters in our life. Some people are born with social intelligence. they can deal with any one and can deal with him well.others can learn the art of the communication . But there are some people who cant get along with people. People cant understand or feel them. they cant make closed relationships. They maybe don't care but some times they feel lonely and sad.It is not necessarily that these people are not nice or decent people, but it is just they cant keep relationships ,there is some thing wrong happen whether it was in the first, middle or even at last.Un fortunately i now many people of the last kind and I feel sad for them. But i cant help them.I know that They try to hold together and keep pace with life , but i know well that they are not happy. I know that they are emotional persons.They just dont want to be weak and let their emotions to weaken them. So they like to be strong all the time.But even strong persons need to be weak with closed person or even in-front of themselves if they couldn't have one.Life is tiring without love and people understand us.So family and friends are the most important elements in the lives of all people.If there is something wrong in the family ,the life of this person will have something wrong and miss something important.
What are your opinons? Share with me your experiences. Reasons and solutions and situations from your life.
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thank you so much YOLA .
Reading your blog I remember a head of state saying: " People have so much inter dependence and yet so little understanding." I love what you wrote, it should be a reminder to all of us that no matter what our differences are be it culture, tradition, religion, family upbringing, and personal interests, tolerance and adjustment will teach us how to deal with people from all walks of life.
Brilliant !!!!!!
hi sophia . thanks so much . I totally agree with you i always say no relationship can be without appreciation and respect. when you appreciate some one, you support his self esteem.All people have physical and spiritual needs. We all need love,respect and appreciation. when you give some one appreciation, you support him and satisfy his need.
well written
Dear Miro, yeah you are right. I actually have an experience about what you said. I have a sister; she has a special character. It's hard to get along with her, but being her older sister i try to accept her the way she is and to be nice to her. We may do that for our family members but sometimes we just give up when we encounter people who are hard to get along. so it's better for everybody to learn some skills in order to deal with people. It's the most important skill, i believe.
You are thinking too much, that what makes it more difficult for you. it is simple, you hang out with them and accept them as they are. if you are comfortable enough being with them, make a polite escape. cause life is either 1 or 0, Yes or No.
Good effort. Your text need a lot of corrections.