This question was bugging my thoughts these past few days. I'm asking myself how will you know when you've had enough? Enough of the relationship that isnt working, enough of the dramas in life, enough of the things that doesn't make you happy anymore. Is it when the other person has finally gone too far ? Should we wait until they do something major before you decide to leave? Leave after you realize the extent of emotional abuse? Do we need to set boundaries in a relationship and if our partner reached our limits then that’s the time to leave them behind? I am a person who trust people so easily and forgive them in an instant, but sometimes I ask myself how will I stop forgiving a person that always do the same mistakes again and again? This is where its gets confusing. When will I ever know to learn how stop forgiving a person…is there an end point for forgiveness? So how do you know when to stay and when to walk away? Is it if you often find yourself in a position where you need to defend the other person from yourself even you know he/she is wrong just to forgive him/her and work things out? Sometimes you might justify their mistreatment because they try to make you feel like you’re the “wrong one” or the “crazy one.” There came a point when I realized that people who truly respected me would encourage me to grow; but they wouldn’t let my weaknesses become an excuse to intimidate me. But when is the time you have to end it because you’re fed up of the wrong things that people did to you? How will I come to know that I’ve had enough?
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Ramesh, yeah forgiving is like a habit to me nah...hehehe! you're right, its very rare...coz you can't see MARTYRS these days...lolz! thanks for the comments ji :D
hello maya
people whenever not say enough. because its nature ....dont stop your forgiving habits...this habits very rare be among people..
Vinne, I forgot to stick that saying to my mind...(we are the only one responsible for our happiness) heheh! It has to sink in now :D thanks for the comments :)
very interesting blog, I just want to say that, we are the only ones responsible for our happiness.
sevil sis, Kill them? you are so cruel! lolz :P but if its the only way the why not? hehehe! kiddin'.
maybe I need to practice what you have told me... (maya opening the door) "Stay away from my life!" (Is my acting good for you sis? will I get an oscar award from it?) hehehe! Thanks for the comment sis :D
Expector Smith, giving someone 30+ last chances isn't a sign of patience? hehehe! thanks for the comment :D
It really depends!
Maybe you should be more patient - don't let go or give up too early. But when enough is enough, let go.
Opti sis, you can't even think how i felt about it...when you get annoyed too much, feelings colliding inside you, the hurt, pain, anger, confusions, and other things. It's really unbearable that I can't even think straight and doesn't even know what to do. To hold on or to let go. But I came to know that we have to put an end to all the things that bothers us. thanks for the comment sis :D
noaslpls sis, thats true..not everyone deserves a second chance. as i have counted, i gave this person maybe almost 30+ last chances...every time was last chance for this person but he always messed up the chances i gave him...its just sad that when a person is important to you and they know that you will forgive them every time they made mistakes, some will take it as an advantage to make mistakes again and again. so i think this time i will make sure whom will i give a second chance. thanks for the comment sis :D
I think we all should take heed on the phrase "Once bitten, twice shy". Sometimes some people did not deserve to get the second chance let alone another chance and another and another and another.
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