How to Be Helpful

Being nice and helpful may get you good friends and a happy life. Some people don't know it, but the nicer you are, the happier you will be in future. Say ' I Love you' to the people you Love.

Smile!

Now be totally honest: Do you prefer being around someone that seems too sad or utterly serious, or hanging around somebody that smiles and seems to always be having fun? Yep, We've got it! A friendly smile will always brighten up anyone's day. Being in a good mood makes anyone feel more comfortable to approach you.

Offer to help anyway

Are there any friends or a siblings needing any help at all? Why not help them out! Help somebody study for a test, or help your parents clean the house. There is no problem about helping out someone in need, because soon or later, they will probably (but not necessarily) help you in something, too.

Say positive things to people

Encouraging people to do what they like, or saying positive things to make people feel better after any bad situation will sure make you someone unforgettable. When you feel sad about anything in your life, wouldn't you love that someone could appear only to say a friendly word to make you smile? Well, if you are that person, everyone will sure love you forever and you will feel great.

Don't criticize

Encourage! As previously said, people want someone that say positive things, not that criticize every move they do. Of course you have the right to give your opinions, but doing it in a rude way won't help anyway.

Be receptive and accept all people

No matter how someone else looks or dresses, they deserve a chance. Why not to go up to someone new, smile and let them know if they need something, you will be there.

Think befor doing anything

Before doing something, stop and think well about the situation. It's always good not to precipitate things or say stuff without thinking, or someone can get hurt. Always do what you think is right, and remember that the best thing to do is that which will be fair for everyone. Also do not be very rude or mean to anybody that you have not met. Also think for example: if someone does not have an egg wrap, be nice and give them one. Maybe one day when you have no food someone else just might give you some food.

In my opinion, if one doesn't have any charity in his heart, he has the worst kind of heart in the world. Everybody gets happy when they see smiling people around. But, we forget that if we want people smile or help us, we should do what we want to get back. We can't just sit and wait people to help us, we have to show how.

Helping is an act of kindness. Everybody deserves to be behaved well, no matter who he is. A stranger, a homeless, even those who are rude to us.

During my second year of nursing school our professor gave us a quiz. I breezed through the questions until I read the last one: "What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?" Surely this was a joke. I had seen the cleaning woman several times, but how would I know her name? I handed in my paper, leaving the last question blank. Before the class ended, one student asked if the last question would count toward our grade. "Absolutely," the professor said. "In your careers, you will meet many people. All are significant. They deserve your attention and care, even if all you do is smile and say hello." I've never forgotten that lesson. I also learned her name was Dorothy. ~ Joann C. Jones

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Robbie February 11, 2012 7:07

Hi Dany,

This is a nice blog to read and to reflect. Being helpful towards others is an act of real kindness. If we act with care, good karma would likely be on our side. Thank you for sharing this blog. You are an inspiring blogger! : )

@ Shifna,

I like your 7 tips. Thanks for sharing comment! : )
ATLANTIS February 9, 2012 14:12

thank you Rajesh for your comment

you are welcome dear
Rajesh February 9, 2012 14:08

Hi dany, it's so nice blog. Big thanks for sharing, dear friend !
ATLANTIS February 4, 2012 13:07

oh shifna

do you know, you give me some help

you are really helpeful person, and you give me an example of helpeful person

thank you a lot

my shif
ATLANTIS February 4, 2012 11:49

if we are helpful persons

and teach others and our children how they been helpful

I think we will create a ideal society with people that love each others

thank you Anele for your comment
ATLANTIS February 4, 2012 11:18

do you know yasemin

Some people are helping us indirectly without we feeling

we shoud notice them and thank them

thank you for your nice comment and my greetings to dorothy
Yasemin February 4, 2012 11:02

In my opinion, if one doesn't have any charity in his heart, he has the worst kind of heart in the world. Everybody gets happy when they see smiling people around. But, we forget that if we want people smile or help us, we should do what we want to get back. We can't just sit and wait people to help us, we have to show how.

Helping is an act of kindness. Everybody deserves to be behaved well, no matter who he is. A stranger, a homeless, even those who are rude to us.

During my second year of nursing school our professor gave us a quiz. I breezed through the questions until I read the last one: "What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?" Surely this was a joke. I had seen the cleaning woman several times, but how would I know her name? I handed in my paper, leaving the last question blank. Before the class ended, one student asked if the last question would count toward our grade. "Absolutely," the professor said. "In your careers, you will meet many people. All are significant. They deserve your attention and care, even if all you do is smile and say hello." I've never forgotten that lesson. I also learned her name was Dorothy. ~ Joann C. Jones
ATLANTIS February 4, 2012 10:58

thank you spring

you comment so so nice

I like the part of true friend
ATLANTIS February 4, 2012 10:41

Thank you Hesan

I Hope every body will helpe Others

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