What you call loving to your children and family ?
What you call if a man have just space in his heart for his family ? not another woman ! not another love!
Not anyone come to his heart … even if his wife is sick , even if she cant do the sexual relationship and even simplest thing in the life , or emotion relationship !
What you call if a woman has a ill husband and endure his situation .. take him of the ground and take him to the bathroom and wash him … even he lose his tongue !
How can the Human social history can explain it!
Humanity is full of Instinct, like animals … attraction of having sex with others ! out of the struction of family! Pleasure of having sex with more than one person!
Are they the bad side of humanity! ???
My friend said no!
She is studying philosophy.. And she said that every person can and that is in his instinct to have relationship with more than one person . look at your inside ! look at the human social history ..
In Nepal there is a society that a woman can have 5 husband ! and in suadi arabia was the same before ! in suadi arabia and in whole in Islamic countries , they are allowed to have 4 wives and even more than them in some of them!
How can you explain it !
I can explain it by saying instinct of humanity …but how can you explain what a man or woman does when they sacrifices their self for family!
How can you explain what is happing here and what my friend said!
Comments
Camel
If people (Muslim and some non-Muslim too) if doing so they are committing a sin and be responsible for their act before Allah. It has been strictly conditioned to observe justice otherwise stick to one.
There no conception of having more than 4 wives in Islam. Islam allows keeping 4 wives on the strict condition to observe equality and justice between them. If a person can't observe this condition, he should marry one and this is must.
For women having more husband is not presently seen (in common), it was in the earlier history of a certain religion, like Hinduism. Presently this is not in practice.
Now come to your blog. Actually I find it a bit confusing. What is your main theme?
Do you want to discuss extramarital relationship by a man or a woman? No society permits this type of relationship.
In the same way, if a married man is sick and unable to fulfil his marital obligation, should his wife be allowed to have a relationship with another man? No, this is not permissible, but this woman has the permission to get divorced and marry another man. (Preferably she should be obliged to comply with her vow taken at the marriage. So as the same with the man having a sick wife.