You do not have to 'have a say' in everything that is going on. Sometimes you just sit and watch people talk. Sometimes you learn from them, sometimes you find them absurd. For whatever it is, you must know when to say your piece and when you need to hold your tongue. Do not butt in unnecessarily. It may be perceived as rudeness.
On the other hand, being quiet may be perceived as unknowing or naive. They do not know what you know. Sometimes it makes you laugh how people take you for an ignorant while they do not know is that you are just simply practicing what was mentioned above.
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