I accept one man's ( let's call him Jack here) pursuit without knowing his backgrounp at the begging, but i know his backgroug gradually, just feeling we have same topic with each other, he is a talent and hardworking person. However, life is realistic, he couldn' t afford me a good living quality if i marry with him. So i fell i cann't marry a man who couldn't give me good living condition even he love me.
At this moment, my upperclassman ( let's call him Paul here) say he fall in love with me, I know him for one year and know his background clearly, and i love him serectly the whole year, but he didn't expressing love to me before. Until this moment, he express his feeling to me. And his parents also advice him to choose me. I know he have ability to afford me good living condition after marriage. he is a kind man.
So i very puzzled now, how can i choose ? Life must be contained by love and bread.
If i choose Paul, is i too selfish? So i need advise......
Pls everybody i need your help.........
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lili_lala, thanks for your advice. Yes, the man love me ready to working hard to finance me in the future, however, it needs very long time for him to earn enough money for a good living condition.If i choose not to be with him, do you think i was wrong?
Thanks U shaikh. If i choose the man love me more, but he couldn't afford me good place for living, how can i marry him ?
Mary the man who love you more because if man love you he take care you and try to fulfill each and every desire
simple ways, first know background of Jack then think carefully which person is better for you
because marriage decision is very important decision. think 100 time and decide one time and keep patient. I think Ec Friend give advise soon