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Expectation

Posted by ELF-Noor on July 3, 2015

Never keep expectation from others

because expectation just teach us to be sorry on others,

we tells them bad by keeping expectation

because we expect from them, when they do not fulfill our expectation,

then we got hurt-ed and and feel sad...

but think for a while whether we should blame them for not fulfilling our expectation or

we should blame our-self for keeping expectation from them.

Expectation always disappoint us, hurt us and make us to be feel sorry on others..

The things we get without expectation make us happy, give us pleasure. .

"Expectation is the root of all headache" William Shakespeare
"Don't expect things to happen. it is better to be surprised, than to be disappointed"

so we should expect just from God, God will always listen our talk and he will keep our

Expectation and will never Ignore us..

correction, expectation

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Daniel July 6, 2015 13:43

I loved the Shakespeare's quotation.
ELF-Noor July 6, 2015 4:51

#Dear Setareh thanks for your nice comment.. i am really glad to have your concept here. !
setareh July 5, 2015 7:29

Dear Noor, you are right. If we have no expectations from others there would be no hurt, but most of the time it's hard no to have any expectations from our beloved ones. When we do something for others just for their own sake rather expecting something in return that would be more delightful.
ELF-Noor July 5, 2015 6:37

# Grace Ra doll.. i did not get your point??:(
ELF-Noor July 5, 2015 6:35

#dear Alice E. thanks for your nice view with us,... i am glad to have your comment here.

#Areality you are absolutely right, blood relation are the only true relation we have in our life, so keeping expectation from them is like a right of their... but sometime expectation hurts us more then we deserve.. i am talking in general from others relation except family, we should not expect, we should expect as less as we can.. we should give trust, love and faith but should not expect that we will also get back in return love, faith and trust.. i know it is very difficult, as that is in human nature that when he/she give love,faith and trust then he/she also want back in return.. when we do not expect and we get then it give more happiness then if we expect and get..

we should not do anything by keeping that in mind , they will also do same for us.. i am talking about this type of expectation "in sense of return".. that is other side of expectation, expectation from siblings,mother ,father... i think this is called "RIGHT" they have RIGHT on us that we do care,love, trust for them.. i have also right on them.. !! i hope you will get my point of view now..

i am really glad that you share your concept with us and also you give me chance to think on that elaborately .
Grace Ra July 5, 2015 3:51

Can I have a little expectation on myself?
Alice E. July 4, 2015 9:36

We are all human, weak and fragile and we have all at one time or another let each other down because of this...but this is the beauty of helping each other, and without expectation, without demands, we can through our feeble efforts make each other happy too. :)
ELF-Noor July 4, 2015 2:02

#Onee-chan thanks alot for sharing your view here.. yeah we should have hope from only Allah.. because Allah never disappoint us in any case, if Allah is delaying in fulfilling our wishes then it must be not the right time for having a wish.. hoping from other always leads us to disappointment..
Onee-chan July 4, 2015 1:52

Throw away those expectation...

Only to Allah, we have still hope...

Let the life flowing like water on the river...

You'll find the sea for sure...

Nice writing, ELF Noor! ;)
ELF-Noor July 3, 2015 19:36

#Amal ,Nimzaf thanks for liking my blog.. i am glad to have your comments..

#Walker(Mr. star member) its great to have your comment:) thanks for correction..!!