It's not been the best day of my life and since my mind is so limited to write poems, I thought of writing something entertaining and enjoyable, or maybe I'm feeling nostalgic for old times? Haha... hope not. In any case the point is to look at the bright side of life.Well, the case is that I met an old friend I didn't see for years (19 exactly) and it's normal to have chatted about moments we shared. The thing is that he used to be a Don Juan with girls, he succeeded most of the times with them, if we met each other the following day after a party night he started to tell me his adventure and I was like... whaaaat!!?He used to practice his peculiar technique for flirting; when going on 'hunting' and he visualised his 'target' in the group of girls, he started to speak to the most accessible to start chat that he considered so that after a while she introduced her friend. "Yes, it's a mean way, I know, but it works" he said.However, there're other kind of people who have a natural attraction, they are human magnets with the other gender. Another friend had this charismatic personality so I hated to hang out with him, I knew that soon or later he will disappear while partying and more than once we even left him in near towns since it was getting so late and he didn't already appear.As for me, I haven't been the luckiest person at these arts. The girl I was interested in seemed not to pay me too much attention or I had to be content for being the typical 'best friend' by other hand the ones who liked me then was myself who raised objections to them, surely being selective is a handicap. Yeah, hard life right?Anyway I was sort of naive or dumb for these issues since I didn't take the hints easily. It's said that between joke and joke the truth shows up although I didn't always catch the insinuations. O.K. I also played the fool sometimes :DOh.. one advice, flirting is a risky game, one wrong move and you're married.Summing up, I guess relationships in general between both genders differs from one country or society to another but surely feelings and emotional sensitivity keep the basic nature as humans we are. Don't you think?
I think wiles are so common for both genders. Can you say you didn’t do any flirt in front of that girls? Sometimes your dumb action has appeared to take their attention. Isn’t it?:D
However, anyone may have an old friend like this, sometimes who bring discomfort. But don’t forget Old friends are your Adolescence.
(I got many new words from you. Thanks a lot my friend!)
I would say that in most cases the guy is chosen by the girl although they may make us thinking the opposite (at least around here). You know, feminine wiles haha...
Well in any case, the point is that both sides are comfortable with each other, with no obligation.
Thanks for coming again. It's always a pleasure reading from you :)
Risty pleaseee...!!
Don't make me blush this way, red doesn't fit my face. By other hand I'm glad that not only Dara thinks I am hombre guapo, o.k. Thanks for the compliment anyway :)
Staring each other and feeling her with no words while time come to a sudden stop is only the beginning of the story, nothing else matters around. Well yes it's different and faster nowadays but I'm from the old school and liked to work for it.
Ermmm... yes thank Goodness we belong to different worlds :p
Is flirting still working nowadays? I thought people only stare at each other and the rest is history.
I think those girls you hang out with were not into the serious type of relationship that's why they didn't pay attention to you. And I think you are a good choice for a serious commitment, how's that amigo Hermano? I'm not kidding. :D
It's nice to know we are not born in the same generation, I could have a crush on you. (Oh my, I will burst this laugh, please help me not to)
lol, it seems we all had that friend who is very lucky with girls.. but you know what? I have always believed that girls (especially virgins) are always being attracted to the stupid guy :D
Luckily, neither me nor you were that stupid guy who single girls feel attractive to :D
Nooo Rose...!
Crazy for making others happy? Sure not! Actually I bet you'd surely feel content too after some time, well perhaps bittersweet even a bit sad at first watching someone you may like with your friend.
You know, your comment made me remember that I also played the role of a matchmaker in some occasions although those relationships never came to fruition.
It is curious how some opportunities come when you least expect it or in the worse times they should. Well I guess that's another story.
I can feel somehow now you're happy with your life, congratulations Rose, something tells me you deserve it. Hopefully I'll be a happy grandpa someday too but God willing it'd be after many years already haha...
Thanks a lot for your reply, ohh.. and be proud to have such give to find the needs of others although I think it's not that bad to think in yourself too :)
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-Yep, sometimes.
Anyway I believe women are more skilled at this point.
I think wiles are so common for both genders. Can you say you didn’t do any flirt in front of that girls? Sometimes your dumb action has appeared to take their attention. Isn’t it?:D
However, anyone may have an old friend like this, sometimes who bring discomfort. But don’t forget Old friends are your Adolescence.
(I got many new words from you. Thanks a lot my friend!)
I would say that in most cases the guy is chosen by the girl although they may make us thinking the opposite (at least around here). You know, feminine wiles haha...
Well in any case, the point is that both sides are comfortable with each other, with no obligation.
Thanks for coming again. It's always a pleasure reading from you :)
Hello Estanis
In most cases, one selects his/her spouse and the other is selected. It rarely happens that both sides select each other.
an old maiden understands this, you know, old school stuff... :D
Don't make me blush this way, red doesn't fit my face. By other hand I'm glad that not only Dara thinks I am hombre guapo, o.k. Thanks for the compliment anyway :)
Staring each other and feeling her with no words while time come to a sudden stop is only the beginning of the story, nothing else matters around. Well yes it's different and faster nowadays but I'm from the old school and liked to work for it.
Ermmm... yes thank Goodness we belong to different worlds :p
Is flirting still working nowadays? I thought people only stare at each other and the rest is history.
I think those girls you hang out with were not into the serious type of relationship that's why they didn't pay attention to you. And I think you are a good choice for a serious commitment, how's that amigo Hermano? I'm not kidding. :D
It's nice to know we are not born in the same generation, I could have a crush on you. (Oh my, I will burst this laugh, please help me not to)
Physical attraction is very humane.
...but I bet you agree that sweet things never made anyone bitter :D
lol, it seems we all had that friend who is very lucky with girls.. but you know what? I have always believed that girls (especially virgins) are always being attracted to the stupid guy :D
Luckily, neither me nor you were that stupid guy who single girls feel attractive to :D
Crazy for making others happy? Sure not! Actually I bet you'd surely feel content too after some time, well perhaps bittersweet even a bit sad at first watching someone you may like with your friend.
You know, your comment made me remember that I also played the role of a matchmaker in some occasions although those relationships never came to fruition.
It is curious how some opportunities come when you least expect it or in the worse times they should. Well I guess that's another story.
I can feel somehow now you're happy with your life, congratulations Rose, something tells me you deserve it. Hopefully I'll be a happy grandpa someday too but God willing it'd be after many years already haha...
Thanks a lot for your reply, ohh.. and be proud to have such give to find the needs of others although I think it's not that bad to think in yourself too :)