i am single yet but i heard it alot from my friends who got married.they say,oh if we had girlfriend or boyfriend,we would enjoy our life more.what do you think?do you agree with them or not.and why?
It depends on the concept people have about marriage, being single, boyfriend/girlfriend, marriage.
The ideal thing for some, myself included, is that if you feel attracted to a person, you should date that person and get to know her/him better, learn about your similarities, differences, and think about the future, if you could both have a long lasting marriage and raise a family, and if so, then get married. I mean.. there are those who just "live the moment", and they go from party to party, from disco to disco, not to mention other things, they think that's all that matters, the "good times". Then they get married, either because of the good times or because of unexpected pregnancy, and later on... sorry, I thought I loved you, but this isn't working. Let's get divorced.
Once someone told me when finishing high school... I love my gf, and we were going to marry next year, but we will do it next week because she is pregnant. I saw him after a few years in a school, he said he had divorced a few months after marriage because they had a lot of problems, and they were not "compatible". There was the risk that his ex wife could take the child out of the country.
There are people who are together for a few months or weeks and get married and last forever. Others are together for years, get married, and last only a few months. Every one is a different world, and not all relationships are the same. What wor4ks for one may not work for the other.
You should get married because you are sure you love that person and you want to spend your life with that person and raise a family, and fight with that person for that family, be together in health and sickness, in rich and poor, in happiness and sadness. It takes two to tango. Marriage is something serious, not a way to escape from home, or a way to "appear" more adult or more mature. And one can be happy being single too.
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marriage.....
the luster may fade if it is only gf/ bf relationship. So while its strong I feel its better to seal it with marriage
hi my dear hesam,
i'm single,but i prefer to get married..
It depends on the concept people have about marriage, being single, boyfriend/girlfriend, marriage.
The ideal thing for some, myself included, is that if you feel attracted to a person, you should date that person and get to know her/him better, learn about your similarities, differences, and think about the future, if you could both have a long lasting marriage and raise a family, and if so, then get married. I mean.. there are those who just "live the moment", and they go from party to party, from disco to disco, not to mention other things, they think that's all that matters, the "good times". Then they get married, either because of the good times or because of unexpected pregnancy, and later on... sorry, I thought I loved you, but this isn't working. Let's get divorced.
Once someone told me when finishing high school... I love my gf, and we were going to marry next year, but we will do it next week because she is pregnant. I saw him after a few years in a school, he said he had divorced a few months after marriage because they had a lot of problems, and they were not "compatible". There was the risk that his ex wife could take the child out of the country.
There are people who are together for a few months or weeks and get married and last forever. Others are together for years, get married, and last only a few months. Every one is a different world, and not all relationships are the same. What wor4ks for one may not work for the other.
You should get married because you are sure you love that person and you want to spend your life with that person and raise a family, and fight with that person for that family, be together in health and sickness, in rich and poor, in happiness and sadness. It takes two to tango. Marriage is something serious, not a way to escape from home, or a way to "appear" more adult or more mature. And one can be happy being single too.
all depends on yourself, some of my sisters/brother didn't have a boyfriend/girlfriend and they were married ... enjoy their lives ... ;)
-Nadiyah-