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Do you judge a person?

Posted by Lynne on March 18, 2010

Instinctively, we do! This is so to protect ourselves and the people around us. Developing the system of knowing the right person to trust is learned gradually. Diversed steps are done and could be done in many different ways.

One good way that I know, is to observe the person by how they treat other people. Not sure though if this is effective but this works for me. But, still one has to be careful though because our own personal assessment could be wrong but eventually we will know.

Could you please share with me your opinion on this matter.

-Lynne-

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Lynne March 19, 2010 2:12

Thanks for your comment Expectorsmith. ^_^ That's very true. I too find myself in a situation where I don't know whether to trust the person or not but, I still trust them and just leave everything to God. My life just goes around in that way. Once I decide to leave everything to God, I stop worrying because some situations in our lives are really beyond our control. Honestly, I am still lucky to find a few who deserves to be trusted.

Thanks again Expectorsmith it's really nice to hear your honest opinion on this.

Good day!

-Lynne-
Expector Smith March 18, 2010 14:33

It's a good way to judge a person by their behaviour. Sometimes it's hard to decide whether you should trust a person or not. It needs some luck.
Lynne March 18, 2010 4:58

Nice words Nadiyah. I agree. ^_^

Thanks.

-Lynne-
Lynne March 18, 2010 4:48

Yes Nadiyah, I agree with you it could be not accurate right away but there are other people's ears and eyes. People will judge according to what they really feel. We know at the back of our minds that everybody does this. So, it's really very important to be careful of our actions. We may not always show thru our words and actions that we dislike the person but this cannot be hidden forever. Simply because we are always judge by other people, wrongly or correctly.

I think it has nothing to do with the difference in culture. It's the animal behaviour in our system.

Thanks Nadiyah for what you've shared here. ^_^

-Lynne-
Nadiyah March 18, 2010 4:43

thanks for a nice topic, it's so interesting, Lynne

my point of view that the most important thing in life is, never forced anyone to understand us, but we who must strive to understand others ...

-Nadiyah-
Nadiyah March 18, 2010 4:08

hello Lynne

sometimes observations we or others are not fully accurate,
I think it takes time and correctly understand what happened. each person has a right to have his own thoughts. you know all that influenced by the customs and culture in where he comes ... thanks for sharing!

-Nadiyah-