So far I can understand, to be a working mother is not a easy task. And, it seems to me, they are sometimes badly needed to see psychologist to reduce their mental pressure. So, I am trying to make a conversation in this regards.
Mo: I don't know how to manage my children and my workplace together. Sometimes I think, I would not be a successful mother! But I want to be. Should I quit my job?
Psy: No, why so? A lot of women are working around the globe. Relax, tell me about your work pattern. I think, I can help you to fix your problems.
Mo: See, there are lots of threats around us. And, as a working mother how could I manage them?
Psy: But, tell me why on this earth you have to take measures for all sorts of unwanted things! Would your children get all kinds of worse things!
Mo: No, you are right but I have to think almost all, you know what I meant.
Psy: Yes, I do. But, listen, being tensed to everything is not so healthy for a person. Specially, who has more responsibilities. It is very natural, a mother would be anxious about her children. But, along with it, she should know how to manage this sort of mental pressure.
Mo: It seems your are right. Hmm, would you please tell me how could I reduce my stress?
Psy: Yes, Of course, and this is why I am here. First of all, try to get up a bit early. Then get your children up. Try to have breakfast together. It helps to make a tight bondage. And, of course do some physical exercises. Share your anxieties, your works, responsibilities with your partner. Never try to fix everything alone! And, one last suggestion, try to think positively.
Mo: Oh, yes, I should try to think positively to everything, thanks!
Comments
its better to manage things in life to be a good mother.
Thanks noa for your suggestion. @ Misha....Really happy to know that you help your beloved wife. And let me say I am also blessed in this way. @ Thanks..ana sis.
Woah..!
Nice dialogues dear!
It's become something unavoidable that most women have to balance being a mother and a working person.
Observation
"But, tell me why on this earth ....". Normally the sentence should be "But, tell me why on Earth ...". It's more natural.
Yes it is very hard and cumbersome to be a working mother.
My wife has been/is a working mother of two kids.
and I know how much she toils to dispose off her daily works
along with disposing of her professional duties.
But if husband and other members of family are cooperative, then it is not as difficult. For this I learned simple cooking and make lunch/dinner occasionally, so she then has to eat only. In the same way we should share other works, too.
Nice and 'need of the time' blog.