ZZ is one of my best friends. She's just 2 years older than me, yet she is now under much stress of love and marriage from her family. As I've mentioned before, here when a girl arrives at a marriageable age, if she is still single, she'll have to face such stress from her family and friends. As a filial daughter, ZZ has accepted several blind dates arranged by her parents.
At the beginning of the year, she should have moved to the city I stay currently with me. But she wasn't allowed, her parents persuaded my boss to let her stay. I'm not sure how many blind dates she has attended after work in the past half year, but I know she's suffering cause she called me from time to time and complained now and then about her restricted life.
"MM, my mother promised me once I find a boyfriend I could move to your city." 3 months ago, ZZ may finally get a clear understanding of her situation and her parents' determination, she had an agreement with her parents and called to inform me immediately about it. From then on, she made a U-turn and started to look for a boyfriend actively instead of being pushed. And also she accepted her cousin's idea to search on dating sites.
"Alas, MM! Many a man are not the same as they depicted on the sites. Bad luck, I met a guy who's already married. He said he was single and the day we met I figured it out. Guess what, he was so cheeky and nasty as he told me directly he wanted a mistress!" Later she called to complain about her sufferings again.
"Okay, not that bad, at least you found out his lie before you fall in love with him. Secondly, now you know whether in life or on line, when it comes to love and marriage it's the same and you have to move step by step and look before you leap." I didn't know how to comfort her but to tell the true words in my mind.
What's your view on this point, my smart friends? Giggling.
By the way, here are the top six famous and popular sites for young people in China:
[I am curious if there are also such sites in your countries...]
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Thanks for your sincere comment sis sewar! Long time no see, how I missed ya!
I agree with you. There are many cheating guys in those sites. Better fall in love with the one who is your friend at first at least, the one who you know well, the one who understands you...
In the other hand, good luck to those who are serious on those sites. True love is blessed.
;-)
Sweety, how can any one fall in love with someone he or she didn't meet before????? Anyway, from my experience love comes when you feel that you have wings and you can flay high without any limitations. And that will not come through several lines in such sites. I am with our friends who mentioned that the truth may be hidden in such sites!!!!! Truth is always exciting, and love is boring, worthless without it and the life as well. God bless you my little princes.
Good news, she finally comes out from home. I just had dinner with her the other day. She looks a little thinner. ;-)
I think there is need to be so hasty, cause haste can make waste.
If she gets a boyfriend there, she won't be able to move either. He will want her to stay where she is. Catch-22
Hey, sweetie, don't be afraid! The guys online can not even touch you! They are online!
Let me protect you? Giggling
Lol, stranger! You are so funny!
You know what, there is a rule you have to choose yes when you sign up this site:
Dear Faraz, thanks for your wise suggestion! I'm gonna to tell my friend this good idea. ;-)
Love, in my opinion, is also a skill that you need to learn. For choosing a partner, you have to figure out who you are and who you want. That's it. Dating sites can be a not bad access for the singles if they are honest and careful as well.
;-) Have a good one.
Giggling, little bro, you are smart! (Let me tell you a secret. I pretended myself as a male on a certain dating site before. Don't think too much, I was just curious about people's standard of choosing a partner. And the result of my research is... hahaha, I don't tell you!)
;-) The weekend is coming, enjoy it!
When I went to university, many of the young women were attending just to find a good husband.
Giggling, really? That's new and interesting for me.
Being careful to dating sites or any occasion is a nice attitude. When it comes to strange places, people or anything, better to keep alarm. ;-)
Thanks, Mr. Bob!
Hmmm, I agree with you, sis pls. Most of the girls are worried because of peer pressures and family pressures. I hope it can become common here that people give more space for those single girls. They have the right to choose their life, I think.
I think dating sites are like double-edged swords.
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