So hello! I am here again ^^
This time, I have a question for you all. Do you think you can handle it? It's a tough one, you have to think about it carefully before you give me your answer and if you are sure with it then you should be happy. Yup, it has a big effect.
Let me share with you why I am asking you this question. Sometimes we feel alone. Alone and lonely, like you don't have someone to rely on. Like no one is by your side or no one is there for you when you need them. Lonely in heart, is much worse than lonely in physical as you really are alone with no one is around.
(Geez, I searched for a pic in google images for "lonely" and it shows too many depressing pics lol. I don't want to spend too much time picking on a pic there as so not to get infected with the "dark feeling" of being lonely lol)
Source: http://www.flickr.com/photos/fahrirahman/6018508235/sizes/l/in/photostream/
This is what I meant with lonely in physical. Alone. Being alone like this is not always bad, because sometimes we need it. We need to take a break from everything: life, work, traffic jam, people, everything! Here you can ease your mind, relax and enjoy your time doing whatever you like.
Source: http://www.flickr.com/photos/willkommen/5499711690/sizes/l/in/photostream/
Lonely in heart is like in the pic above. You are in the crowd, but somehow feeling lonely and don't feel the love from people around you nor feel being loved by them. Something is missing inside your heart and you want it to be filled. But how? A company of a friend or people you love might work. Well it work most of the time actually.
And here is the one million dollar question. Do you know people who love you and care for you? Do you know to whom you will go for when you are feeling lonely? Some people just don't realize that they are loved so they do not know where to go when they are feeling lonely.
So, can you answer my question?
Do you know who really love and care for you to be with you and accompany you in your alone and lonely mode?
Comments
Sweety :D
It's a long lost blog, home come did you end up here? :D Hope you have overcome you sadness sweet Sweety :*
Sofia, Diggy:
Geez girls, why did you post such "dark" pics? :D
Anyways, Diggy, I am not talking about who is leaving and who stays. It is about this moment, what you have and who you have. If one did not know what he/she has, then how can he/she be grateful? All what he/she feels is that alone and loneliness without feeling the love of people who care for him/her. Poor isn't it? Also stupid.
Diggy:
I made it as a reminder that there are people who love and care for us. People to whom we can come and talk to, people to be crazy with, people who always have time for you and always welcome you, people to whom we can go to when we are feeling lonely. People with whom we feel at home... Too bad sometimes we didn't realize or forget that we have them and we feel/thought like no one love or care for us while actually all we need to do is to look around and see their faces one by one. Faces of people who love you. :)
So never ever say that you are lonely and no one care for you ;)
Mitran:
LOL yup, you are still cute even when you cry. Anyways, with two kids and a husband you will never be lonely. Well for sure you will never be alone lol. Your house will always be noisy :D Ok, back to our business, you are being surrounded with their love!! How come you can ever be lonely?? ^^
wow..very great blog.
I will be back...now, I'm alone...feel so lonely...kekeke...Need cry..lol...
kekeke...even when I cry then..I'm so cute, right?
Lizz:
Whoa! How are you? Long time huh?
Good answer Lizz! Family and friends are the best company ever in your life :) Interesting that you add job there. Why? Good job and not being lonely? What is the relation between them? Are you sure having a good job will not make you feel lonely? Having a job will surely make you busy and got no time for thinking of being lonely :P but you might also have no time to be around your family and friends. Do you make yourself busy with work while you are feeling lonely?
Thanks for dropping by! ;)
Nadira:
Right Nadira, we do sometimes take them for granted. We thought they are always there for us and never leave. We didn't appreciate them nor set them into our priority. Until one day they leave us and there you are, left behind and feeling lonely wishing there is someone to be with you.
And yes Nadira, you are right. If we notice, there are certain people who were always be by ourside when we are in our lowest point in our life. They are the ones whom we must cherish for having them in our life. Good job! You have answered my question, but can you say their names? No need to write it here, I hope you got plenty of them :)
Sofia:
Is it really difficult? Well, I know how you feel, but look again around you and try to feel them. You might then feel their love towards you. It is not that difficult, just you need or WE need to be sure and reassure that they do really love us. That is the problem why it is hard to answer it ;)
Yasemin: Oh come on, compare to your exams this question isn't that hard girl! You gotta work your brain cells and come back here asap to give me that answer. I am waiting!
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