A true relationship brings you happiness, joy, hope and positive feelings. But we never know when the door of this relationship gets suddenly slammed and locked before your own eyes for the reasons unknown. After that restless days begins, anger and negative thinking run wild into your mind. No more meetings, no more talk, no more phone calls, chat, messages and emails. Days passes with endurance and you cannot even determine the reasons unknown. Why someone who was best, keeping always happy turns in to evil that he\she don’t even want to recognize another’s face. How could sole inspiration turn in to poison, hate and rudeness for another?? And finally one choose to leave another alone letting him\her go happy with him\her own chosen independent world of happiness. A happy world that he\she choose to ignore you and treat you as an absolute stranger while he\she can be happy with others as if nothing happened.So, why can’t a relationship turn out to be good as we promise??Why it changes?? May be the answer is time. Time creates always new path and premises in which our relationship needs to be redefined. Time always gives us a choice to react as per the situation. And you can choose to be who you are or change yourself. Also time creates and induced situation through which you have to pass unwillingly and these situation might be induced by your partner in relationship himself\herself. Due to these situations and time you are forced to change your personality, belief & attitude and matter of fact is that your partner still wants the same person as you were before. And if you cannot act same as before they are sure to blame you that you are changed so much and they cannot see how you have changed and for what reasons. Soon they will find you obsolete and your relationship is nothing more than burden. It’s because of him\her wish, attitude & behavior you undergo changes and finally it backfires on your relations with blames of you have changed and finally you are left alone to endure.So what’s the point of making new relationships if finally you will be ignored, pushed away, blamed and forgotten despite making all the efforts to keep your relationship strong? It seems like paradox and yet we are keen to make new relationships often.
Since our childhood people come to our lifes but we don't know for how long, some of them we think or we wish they'll be with us till the rest of our lives but I've learned it doesn't depends on us, sometimes neither on them. We, they, the environment, circumstances... unavoidably change and we have no way to control it.
I just take it as a part of the life so don't think what will happen and enjoy the moment.
Like the old song says 'that's just the way it is, something's will never change' :)
for you wonderful opinions about broken relationships and they are quite convincing...
However we take every relationships in different way,relationships have own path or styles of developing and breaking somehow we cant stop it.Sometimes we make relationship irrationally without weighing it loss or harm or others.And when a relationship starts in real or virtual world..someday it will come to an end ultimate creating pain which we don't intend to have.. And it seems like paradox and we seem helpless in this point how much we sympathize others too move on.
Most relationships ended because of the lack of communication. For me I think its the most important way to keep the relationship going. Even if its a real one or in an online relationship. It is ended as one wouldn't want to make it work. And if both partners love is true then there should be no problem even both will change their attitudes towards each other as being in a relationship for years will make a couple too comfortable to each other so they will see their flaws and differences in time and both should accept it.
Honesty is thr key for removing every misunderstanding. No matter we are dealing with people in real world or virtual we should not hurt their feeling. As dear Mishaikh said we should try not to get emotionally involved.
Relationship on internet are not strong, they have to be broken in any way, in my view we all should take it as normal and do not get involved emotionally.
Reeyaz, I missed to read your blog, and after so long you wrote this. people can change Ree but friends will not, sometimes the feeling is up sometimes it down, but friendship still there...
believe me if we are willing to keep it with us, it will stay long...
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I just take it as a part of the life so don't think what will happen and enjoy the moment.
Like the old song says 'that's just the way it is, something's will never change' :)
I would like to thank all of you guys
@RATU
@CHITRA,
@mishaikh
@ Keen
@ Setareh
@ MAYA
for you wonderful opinions about broken relationships and they are quite convincing...
However we take every relationships in different way,relationships have own path or styles of developing and breaking somehow we cant stop it.Sometimes we make relationship irrationally without weighing it loss or harm or others.And when a relationship starts in real or virtual world..someday it will come to an end ultimate creating pain which we don't intend to have.. And it seems like paradox and we seem helpless in this point how much we sympathize others too move on.
So what’s the point of making new relationships if finally you will be ignored,
Life does not stop, it goes on. Chemistry of love keeps working, whether we like it or not.
So do not get disappointed. If he/she is not there, another one will be there who will love you and the same time respect you and your love.
Relationship on internet are not strong, they have to be broken in any way, in my view we all should take it as normal and do not get involved emotionally.
Reeyaz, I missed to read your blog, and after so long you wrote this. people can change Ree but friends will not, sometimes the feeling is up sometimes it down, but friendship still there...
believe me if we are willing to keep it with us, it will stay long...